This guy i was getting to know told me if i want a relationship with him i need to stop going to bars and clubs..LOLZZZ...what a joke..i said no thanks i dont believe in changing for anyone.if someone loves me they must love me for who.how and what i am.right?
2006-06-06 07:26:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well therez nothing wrong with that. Than that means that he really cares for you! But I guess your still young, and you dont understand what he was trying to tell you. He wasnt trying to controll you. But when you get a little older than you will know what hem meant.
Would you mind if your bf was going to clubs and bars, and when you told him to stop going, he broke up with you. How would you feel? You werent controlling him, you just didnt like it. Than he shouldve understood you. Same thing.
2006-06-06 07:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. The fact that you go to bars and clubs makes you only good for occassional sex and one night stands. There is no way in hell he should have ever considered you for a relationship of any type. How dare he ask you to change.
2006-06-06 14:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy i loved told me i needed to be more outgoing and relaxed, which i admit i could do, but it wasn't like i was a hermit or anything! but we also had other issues and he always seemed to be the one calling the shots on whether we should continue our relationship or not. i never asked him to change anything about himself, because loving someone is about accepting the person as they are and bringing out the good qualities in both of you... take care and be yourself!
2006-06-06 14:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by oh, yes! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It merely depends on the situation. If you want a relationship with him and he doesn't go to bars. But, you go and flirt with other men. Then their is a problem. But, if he is being controlling. Then you need to drop him. You need to figure out what is more important to you and what you want. Then go for it.
2006-06-06 14:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by kitty kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i think he really like you and care for you and really want a serious relationship with you.its not easy to find guys like him now days,if i would be you i would quit the bar and clubing for sometime and see if he is really worth it.if not you can always go back...right?make sense right?i know.
2006-06-06 16:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOO RIGHT! That could have been the start of a horrible relationship. Stay strong.
2006-06-06 14:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people should be respected for whom they are, i would not support anybody changing their personality for someone else.
if he does not want you for what you are, i can assure you that there are thousands out there who are dying to meet some one like you. keep being yourself
2006-06-06 14:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by frank p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right.
2006-06-06 14:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Controlling behavior like that so early is not good sign, good for you for not complying!
2006-06-06 14:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your right! Never let someone change you, be true to yourself!
2006-06-08 13:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by ?born2lose? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋