Is getting even better when it comes to a relationship. Even though the other person cheated?
2006-06-06 06:58:56 · 22 answers · asked by sckr4luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get even... God will. Karma baby.
2006-06-06 07:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by florida_sassy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No.. 2 wrongs don't make a right. If you cheated on him you're relationship is basically done. Plus the chances of you getting a bad reputation for doing it are high too.. So think about it?.. is it really worth ruining your reputation. Don't do think if you're planning on working it out and staying together.. because chances most likely you will definitely break up if you cheat on him.
2006-06-06 14:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting even indicates a desire for continued contact, any contact, positive or negative, is in fact contact.
Now RECOGNIZING the infidelity as a detraction, is certainly a sign of wise decision making and a stable mind.
Of course it hurts, it's betrayal. But any person of any caliber of ethics, would not USE another individual, to punish yet another.
Be not only the BETTER person, but the smarter one. Move on. Good Luck.
2006-06-06 14:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. It depends on the situation. I would if I thought he was trying to literally insult my intelligence with dumb *** lies. If he has the decency to come to me and say I've been cheating and I want to end our relationship (fat chance and only in the movies) then I would just let it go.
2006-06-06 14:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Boss' n it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope just make syou look and feel like crap and makes things drag out longer and cause you know better than the other person you look very vidictive and angry, you don't come out on top getting revenge on anyone, best to just live your life and be happy.
2006-06-06 14:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not. it just makes u hurt the other person and urself even more. it might start a cycle of hurt and u might end up even more hurt. i doubt that u want that.
be the bigger person. state that u r hurt and just walk away from the relationship.it will just get better from there on.
2006-06-06 14:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting even will not solve the problem. 2 wrongs don't make it right. You need to face the problem or issue that you are facing and move on with fixing it.
2006-06-06 14:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think getting even gets you anywhere. The best revenge is to go on and live a happy life.
2006-06-06 14:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting even doesn't help anything. it hurts you, the cheater, and if you cheat to do the 'getting even', you'll probably hurt the person you cheat with, too.
2006-06-06 14:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Edith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's a waste of your time and energy. Put your talents to better use. Walk away from the cheater and live your life.
2006-06-06 14:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey listen gettin even isn't the thing 2 do. Karma will take care of it 4 you. maybe not 2day or 2morrow, 1day it will sneek up & bite him back,so just smile,cause when it does he won't know what hit him(BUT U WILL !!!!)
hats-girl
2006-06-06 14:20:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋