There are definitely people out there who had children then totally regret it. Are you among them? If so, how long did it take you to realize your mistake?
2006-06-06 06:14:06 · 12 answers · asked by comfort eagle 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Very interesting question...I am one of those women that never had children, by choice. I knew I'd be a bad parent, so I spared a person years of therapy bills and have gone on my merry way. I KNOW there are people out there who regret having children, they have told me, so I'm kinda surprised more people haven't 'fessed up.
2006-06-06 22:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by turtle girl 7 · 8⤊ 3⤋
Oh there are days that I wish I wasn't a parent but I wouldn't change a thing if I could turn back time. There are times that are much more challenging than others, especially when you see yourself in them. You want better for them, you don't want them to do the things you did. But never would I ever call or think of my children as a regret or mistake.
2006-06-06 13:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by byob2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don;t think you can regret a child once you've had one. You many miss your freedom sometimes, but its them who will put a smile on your face everyday for all the years they live with you. If you are under 20 when writing this, thenI would say unless too late, don;'t think about kids yet, as its great to have a bit of life experience before you have them. However, if you are already pregnant, be prepared for a hard working, but exciting future
2006-06-06 13:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by gill 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're going to have a hard time finding anyone living in total regret about their child/ren. Unless the kid murders your spouse or something, a kid is too much connected to you to dismiss with total regret, like you might a bad investment or buying a lousy car. I think that level of regret would drive a lot of people mad.
2006-06-07 02:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
being a mommy has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. He is only 2 but has taught me more than I could have ever thought. He has taught me what love really is, responsibility, and so much more. I couldnt imagine ever thinking that a sweet, innocent, beautiful child is a mistake.
2006-06-06 13:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by sammie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont. My son is honestly the best thing that ever happened to me. Even though it gets hard at times I love being his mom.
2006-06-06 13:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way. My boy's are the best thing that's happened to me. You can say they tought me how to care and love because if I didn't have them I don't know how I would have been. I love my boy's more than words can describe. Being a mother is the best thing in the whole world, I would give up anythin and everything for them.
I don't see how a women would regreat having kids because their all a blessing.
2006-06-06 13:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by babyboys1215 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I'm 8 months pregnant,and even though he wasn't planned,he's apart of me and that makes me automatically love him.
2006-06-06 13:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not at all. Love it each and every day. I feel sorry for those who dont they do not know what they are missing. And I feel even sorrier for their children that have to pay the price.
2006-06-06 13:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No. I'm mom of 3 and I love them.
2006-06-06 13:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Beba♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋