why dont they express their feelings for someone ,why they dont they understand that this may hurt someone or are they insensitive or emotionally backward than women?
2006-06-06 06:01:57 · 15 answers · asked by cute_manasi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women oftentimes give of themselves without expecting anything in return... just say "you love me." This is not the route to assume. One important thing you should understand: Men are the opposite of women, however, men, are not able to express themselves as easily or openly as a female. Men are looked upon as providers, as our strength. What answers are you seeking from the person? Does he love you? "Will he ask my hand in marriage? Well, look at it this way.... if he didn't want your company - would he be there? Sometimes men need a little libation to help them relax, then you will need your ears to hear and your heart to understand him. If you are involved with someone, don't be so pushy for the answers verbally. Men are not emotional fools, they just have different means of expressing and displaying their feelings. Never rush fate. Should it not be with him... there will be someone else who will tell you everything you need to know.... but will he really be the one for you? Wait and see what materializes, if nothing comes to the light, than what have you lost? Unless you have already been intimate with him. "Fools rush in, where lovers never go..." Take your time.... the next time before giving your heart away, then you will not have to feel that a man is an emotional fool.
2006-06-06 06:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ms-No-It-All 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Speaking as a male...I can say this men are brought up to be tough. When a man is with his friends there usually aren't emotion talks or relationship discussions. It usually involves sitting around and "shooting the ****" (or just talking about good times they have shared. With the massive exposure of this type of socialization there is little growth in men emotionally. It is not that they are not emotional and not that they don't care they have simply never had to express it before it is all implied or shown throuhg actions. For example most males have never heard from their father that he loves them, but most of them know this fact because it is implied and understood by the father and son they don't feel the need to say it. Men are just as complex as women, but we are complex in the aspects of hobbies, how we spend time together with our friends, and what we say that should or should not be read into. The majority of problems I have run into with relationships is the women think that when I say things to them I am saying something super deep that implies alot, but the truth is most guys will tell you exactly what is on their mind without hidden meanings. As far as expressing how they feel for you they figure you know how they feel and the fact of the matter is if the guy spends his free time with you instead of with his friends (but don't force him to do this that is bad) if he does this willingly he feels like that shows you how he feels and so he has no need to express it. I hope this gave you a little insight into men and helped you out.
2006-06-06 13:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not looking at HOW we (men) express our feelings. Women express their emotions verbally, men usually do this by actions.
I am more inclined to do something nice for my wife (wash her car, pick up her dry cleaning, clean the house, etc) rather than tell her how I feel. What I mean by my actions - is the same thing which is, I love her.
Just keep in mind that if you can't tell what your guy is feeling, you may not be looking in the right place.
2006-06-06 14:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Randy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can women be so scathing and judgemental? Why dont they understand that this may hurt someone or are they insensitive or emotionally backward than men?
2006-06-06 13:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by sphere_68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you got your information from but men are extremely sensitive, emotional, and expressive. The guy that I am dating is all of the above. One little thing that I say will get him upset and he likes to talk about his feelings. Men are emotional fools yes but some try to play macho in hiding their feelings.
2006-06-06 13:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't know what they feel or how to express what they feel , some think it's weak to share feelings and some are just insecure.
2006-06-06 13:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men find it hard to express emotions and some dont. its all to do with there mental make up i deal with mine and am no way a wreck
2006-06-06 13:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by dave g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is mixed, you see, when I met my girlfriend I greatly expressed my feelings toward her and she did the same to me. It worked so well, we have loved each other for about six years now.
2006-06-06 13:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by ஐDruidlycanthropeஐ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men express emotions differently - don't call us fools, it is important that you learn to read signs as those are a form of communication as well.
2006-06-06 13:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Q Marc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my point of view,
i think men arent emotional fools.
but they choose to be ignorant to the emotional aspects of things to avoid drama and trouble and unecessary stress.
its pretty understandable...
cuz girls can be very dramatic sometimes,
which can get pretty annoying.
i think...
if girls learn to approach things and handle emotional situations better, men might not appear as fools as much as they do.
(yes, i am female)
2006-06-06 13:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋