I hate porn I think its discusting... Is it wrong of me to ask that my boyfriend not look at it...ever... Everyone says that i just cant handle it because im insecure... but still if that is true is that wrong?
2006-06-06 05:52:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can ask him, but he probably just will lie to you and look anyway... just know its normal
2006-06-06 05:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have to deal with your own insecurities. Porn can some times be a tool to help in the sex dept. not saying that you need help, but you can't ask some one to stop some thing just cuz your insecure
2006-06-06 13:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of directly asking him to stop, maybe you can spice up your sex life in the bedroom! Get some new lingerie, give him a back massage, and get his attention again! If my boyfriend looked at porn, it would make me feel sad and upset too, i understand how you feel. If what i suggest doesnt work, and it really bothers you, ask him to stop, if it doesnt stop, then leave him. I know its harsh, but if he is going to knowingly do something that makes you upset, then he isnt being very considerate of your feelings as his partner. Good luck
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2006-06-06 13:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by skajunky_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong for you to have beliefs but its isnt for him either. I had that problem with my exwife. My new wife agrees a man is gonna do it wether you aprove or not but remember that porn star cant come out the screen and do your boy friend. its either porn or the real thing.
2006-06-06 13:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Guitar man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the big deal about porn personally... its better than ya B/f watches porn than goes off and gets it on with some one else.
2006-06-06 12:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of girls hate porn, you are not alone.you are not wrong to hate porn. I think its wrong of you to ask your boyfriend not to EVER look at it. you cant stop a boy form liking it and you especially cant tell him what to do. sex is healthy and your opinion on porn may change one day, it wont mean your dirty.
SEX IS HEALTHY.
2006-06-06 12:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think it's wrong of you. The least he can do is keep this activity of his totally private and not expose you to it. This is something the two of you can reach a compromise on. But no, don't be afraid to tell him you find it offensive.
2006-06-06 12:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong to feel that way towards porn. it will be wrong if you try to change your bf's behavior towards it. because most males, normally have pleasures on porns so if you don't really like it, just tell your bf that don't let you see him looking at it, he can do it privately. it will be more justly.:)
2006-06-06 12:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only a movie, it shouldn't bother you, he's not cheating or paying less attention to you, you should let him watch the movies and watch them with him. get some tips from the movies and do it on your man. Maybe he is trying to give you a hint that he wants to spice up the sex life.
2006-06-06 12:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by J999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong its nasty!!! i asked my b/f not to look at it either i told him if he wasnted to get hard or wanted to look at a naked girl he would just have to come find me and hope i'm in the mood and if he ever dose watch it i'll beat that freak to the ground!!! i hope u would do the same
2006-06-06 12:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate it too and my boyfriend look at it and i asked him to stop but we both know they still will and we will just have to deal with it
2006-06-06 13:05:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋