what makes a guy fall in love ??? from your past experiences when was it you knew that you were in love and why ??? what simple thing that a girl does for you to make that transition from lust to love of your life ???
this should be interesting
2006-06-06 05:45:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my husband said he knew exactly when he fell in love with me. He said it was when it was a bunch of his friends, him and I at a college football game. I was the only girl in the group but blended in. His friends were getting drunk and actin up and just having fun and I didn't put my nose up at them, I just danced, cheered and booed along with them. I know this may not be what would make every man fall in love but I guess I just took him by surprise and I HOOKED HIM!! (hook em horns!!)
2006-06-06 05:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there was an exact moment when I suddenly knew I was in love. It gradually happened as I got to know her more and more. The reasons why were that I liked her personality, she was kind and caring and actually put herself out for other people. We could talk freely about stuff and ask each other intimate questions, our level of communication was really good. I also found I developed a lot of trust with her which made us very close.
I guess that's about it. Oh, and just being open and honest too.
2006-06-06 06:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't actually know if I've been in love, but with some girls you just feel something that's different but you don't know what it is. You don't see them as sex objects or as friends or any of these common feelings.
The first time you saw her you thought she was an angel, and you were lost for words. You want to be with her all the time, protect her, look after her. She makes you happy when you see her. You're down when you're not with her. You wonder where she is and what she's doing.
Ermmm, any help lol. I'm off to jump off a bridge.
2006-06-06 05:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by lostinconfusion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First there must be attraction. Whether you are attracted to their looks, personality or whatever, nothing will happen unless there is some sort of mutual attraction.
Secondly, there must be respect. A feeling of being equals, whether spiritually, emotionally or mentally.
Finally is the unconditional surrender of ones being. Sharing all you have or could give. If both parties feel this way, then i'd say you were well on your way to true love.
P.S. Dont get in the way when the football is on!
2006-06-06 06:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by thoughthard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no one act that will make a guy fall in love but there are times a guy realizes he loves the girl he is with. Times when a girl is concerned about her guy and she calls to check on him to be sure he is okay. And, especially when a guy sees his girl sleeping in his arms, hugging him tight, holding him close and feeling safe in his presence. There is something very intimate in that moment which brings out the feeling of love in most guys. Even when a guy is already in love he will realize at the moment how much he truly loves his girl/ woman.
2006-06-06 17:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Flyyin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completing the other needs that go outside the bedroom. Knowing and filling the void in the other person.
Not having to question trust. Most of all enjoying the silences and separate times but looking forward to sharing there different experiences.
2006-06-06 06:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband always said he knew he was in lust when I belly-danced in front of him at a party. Then he said he fell in love the first time I cooked for him... he said my lasagna was better than his mothers (sacrilege for an Italian boy!)
Turned out he was actually in love with the fact that I earned more than him.... he cleaned me out to the tune of thousands and left me holding the baby (literally!)
2006-06-06 05:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good luck in finding your answer , im 21 and ive never even being really interested in anyone . To be honest thats difficult to answer because its an emotion and its triggerd by certain things a person does so its hard to narrow it down to one thing really . I can remember when me english teacher said to me if you get to 18 and havent cryed over a girl then your doing well really well . I guess im doing well then . just my 2 cents .
2006-06-06 05:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm in love when I suddenly want to be around a particular girl more often. I tend to be easily led by that girl but as embarassed as I get about that, there is nothing I can do about it.
2006-06-07 03:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by xenobyte72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me it usually is time spent with my loved one. But the girl I'm dating now, I fell in love with her at first sight, first kiss, and the first time i talked to her. There was something about her when i first saw her that drew my attention to her. It wasn't her looks. It was something else. Something that made me determined to walk up and talk to her. After about an hour of talking with her i saw something in her eyes that i had never seen in anyone's eyes before. I saw life. i saw beauty.
A few days later i asked her out and gave her our first kiss. And that was it. That was the final thing that proved that i knew that i loved her. The kiss was perfect. The feeling she gave me was amazing. I had never felt that way in my life with anyone. It felt as though no one was around. I didn't have a care in the world.
All a girl has to do to make love in your life is to give all of herself to you. I don't mean in sex. I mean that she gives you her heart, body, mind, and soul. That she loves you for who you are, cares for you, and trusts you.
2006-06-06 05:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋