2006-06-06 05:31:08 · 13 answers · asked by MR. REMY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well if ya don't love her, you have to be open and honest about it all......... did she have the family when ya met her ?? anyway, just be as sensitive and kind about it as you can... but it will prob. hurt no matter what you say or do... you do not have to go into detail about it, you don't want to leave her feeling to bad and stressed out about it all...... but you do need to say something about how you feel.... but like I said be as gentle and sensitive and compassionate as you can... take her on a picnic or such, and talk in private !!! reassure her that life does go on and gets better as her kids grow older.... that she will find some one whom SHE deserves........ even tho her life MAY be the problem there is no reason for you to kick her when she is gonna all ready be down by your break up... leave her with some dignity and self worth......... God bless
2006-06-06 05:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her directly and in a nice way. Maybe, it's not her fault that her past relationship (which gave her that ready-made family) didn't turn out well. Her sad experiences in the past may have something to do with her "drama" today. So talk to her heart to heart and tell her the truth. Don't just go away. Save yourself from guilt and shame. :)
2006-06-06 12:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by betchabygollywow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is over and don't leave a door open for reconcilliation. Someone who excells in drama is going to do whatever they can to suck you back into the relationship or to sucker you into feeling guility, pity, or really ANYTHING for them.
You need to tell her it is done and that no matter what it won't happen between you. Be firm and stick to your decision, if you relent and get back together, it will just be that much harder to leave the next time.
2006-06-06 12:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her Peace out baby, sorry but I aint ready for a ready made family. I am a whuss and cant handle what you have to offer. Simple as that!!!!
2006-06-06 12:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you waited 4 years? Just tell her you're tired of dealing with the drama and get out.
2006-06-06 14:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her very gently that you have chosen a different path for yourself. Be humble by apologizing for wasting 4 years of her life.
2006-06-06 12:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The straight and the narrow path of truth without being rude
2006-06-06 12:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by raj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth whatever it is and let the chips fall where they may. You may have to move and change your phone number if she gets stalker on you but I wouldn't start there.
2006-06-06 12:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Melius 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn my man i been through it but one thing you dont do is lie tell her how you feel of the bat!!! dont pull no punches at the same time try and respect her feelings. i dont know what kind of drama but unless you are a actor you do not need to deal with it.
2006-06-06 12:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by primet21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
druma ?? - what is that ??? But if you what to end it call her a whore - if that does not do it , i do not know
2006-06-06 12:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋