my best friend as been workiing with this guy that she has a MAJOR crush on him, but he doesn't seem to notice her. she changed jobs and moved on with her life, but it wasn't till know that she bumped into him after four months. When she saw him she felt in love with him all over again. she meets other guys but she is not atracted to them. she wants to forget about him because she knows that she is waisting her time thinking about a love that will never corespon to her. How should I help her forget this guy?
2006-06-06 05:29:34 · 29 answers · asked by J.J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to be or not to be that is the question
2006-06-18 12:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT! If she is really in love with this guy, and she would like to be with him for the rest of her life, then CHEER HER ON! A True Love only come's once in a lifetime. If she thinks that she has a chance with this guy, then tell her to go for it! What does she have to lose? If you LOVE someone, you should tell them and say it out loud b-4 it's to late. I would tell her to stop fooling around and follow her heart! If it says, he's the man 4 her, then let her go for it!
2006-06-18 15:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by town_hall_office_clerk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it interesting that as humans we love and focus on someone we really don't know. I think it isn't your job to help her forget him. If she is her own woman, she will either go for him or get over it. Sounds to me like the talk about this is taking on a life of it's own. Check into reality girls.
2006-06-17 16:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find how if she really loves him because she could be lusting over him and tell her if she wont go after him can u cause ur willing to take that step and if it would be alright cause if u just go and do it u will risk losing a friend and a friend is important as a man is to . so be wise and let it out to her and be a friend back to her and understand her and where she commin from well goodluck
2006-06-19 15:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by baby_4th_unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it may take a little time,a very little time to get over him.If she knows she's waisting her time,tell her she needs to move on and continue dating other guys.A crush is just that.It's not love,it should pass easily enough.
2006-06-19 16:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
msboyd 593 is iether a psycologist, or this person has been through the same thing.She i s absolutely right, and there is also the possibility that if it goes all wrong, you might get blamed for sticking your nose in. Just be her friend, listen, and let it work itself out.
2006-06-19 14:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by aramis_b13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.. there is nothing you can do to help her! When it comes to love, it is blind, unforgiving, hard, lonley, sporatic and at time completely crazy. She is goign to have to work this our for herself.
See you will not receive things that you are not willing to make happen yourself.
For instance, your girlfriend... .she prays to stop having feelings for him, she thinks, Lord why do I still feel this way. however she continues to long for him, continues to want him. When SHE says.... **** you dude, she will be able to let go. I am sure you know love can be hard and unforgiving.
The only thing you can actually offer here is your shoulder to cry on when she needs you!
2006-06-06 05:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the feeling aren't the same move on. How you can help her is be a friend and keep her busy(movies or go to the mall)
2006-06-06 05:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by bigfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her busy until the right one comes along. Help her find a way to do fun things and stay busy so she isn't thinking about it. When the right guy comes along, she will be ready.
2006-06-18 03:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your with her and you run into this guy then avoid him or you could tell her a little white lie that you heard he is getting married and that his fiancee is pregnant
2006-06-06 05:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat her with a baseball bat! Beat her really really hard. Or you could just slap her... that wouldn't get you arrested.
2006-06-06 06:18:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋