theres this girl i stumbled upon through the internet.. sounds crazy yes i admit it.. so anyway i slowly learnt of her name.. and the school that she's in.. i have a friend from her school (a girl) but she's not really close enough with this girl i want to go after.. and besides i just feel so damn bad asking for her help.. further more i know nothing about her and i just read her blog sometimes.. i've thought of different ways and means to pull of a first encounter but i really dont know how.. i know i dont want to come off as a desperate psycho stalker so i know i'm never going to tell her about how long i've known her.. thing is i've seen her at the malls a couple of times.. she's 18 and i'm 21.. we have absolutely no reason to know each other.. so how really do i pull of that first encounter.. i can't possibly just kick up a conversation with her when i see her.. i know it won't work cos its not even a club.. just a cafe.. and she's with friends too.. so any suggestions?
2006-06-06 05:23:29 · 4 answers · asked by Marcus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh sorry about the grammar. i just thought that this was an informal forum so nobody would actually mind. i apologise if i gave you any trouble trying to understand my question
2006-06-06 05:40:41 · update #1
First of all, no offense, but the first and foremost thing you need to work on is improving your English and grammar. Your post is almost one large running sentance, with NO punctuation, and if that is actually how you talk in real life....chances are most likely she will not speak back to you for fear of you being brain dead. If you are of another ethnicity, and are still learning English, cross your fingers and hope that your unique good looks will charm her into your pants.
If you want to talk to this girl, regardless of the situation (friends around or not) do NOT be afraid. Do not show that you are intimidated by her at all. Actually the 'friends around' thing might actually be the key to your success. With other people around their is less akwardness and pressure on your OWN conversation, there are other people there to help it along. Secondly dont focus on HER. Talk to someone else and let HER decide to spark the conversation with you, just make yourself visible and approachable. .....but in my honest opinion, to get things started off well and quickly.....if you know of her blog...just simply leave her a comment on one of her entries. Say nice things about how enjoyable it was to read etc etc. and just leave the option open for her to respond.
2006-06-06 05:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by forever_homes 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-06 10:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you noticed her from across the cafe and wondered if you can take her and her friends out for a group thing and you will bring someof your boys. no pressure and that way she doesn't know that you know her.
2006-06-06 05:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds kinda creepy to me
2006-06-06 05:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by l81ucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋