he is so cute and lovely i like him and he also does we dont talk cept in class i am feelin something more than likeness for him i dont know how to talk to him and i am afraid maybe i left my feelins for so long cos he is leavin college this year.i didnt talk to him cos i was afraid he would tell me he has a gf or ist interested.i dont know wot to do.advise pls.
2006-06-06 05:21:26 · 54 answers · asked by babytiger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful this could just be infatuation. Get to know him a bit better, find out what you have in common and go from there.
2006-06-18 12:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by i'm_a_goodie 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Simplest thing (and least embarrassing!) is to ask him for help with an assignment or homework - preferably something you know he is really good at (or useless at but you can do!) - depending on how quickly he says 'yes' should give you a clue as to whether he likes you or not. You can also use the time doing the homework to find out other things, such as g/f etc.
If you are worried about people talking, make the meeting in the library (a 'public' place and not as intimate as at someone's house - it also does not look like you are asking him out!)
I suggest you do not ask someone to find out if he likes you - it will be round the class in no time and can make you very red if the answer is no!
2006-06-16 23:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all , i will tell u that there's niothing to be shamed of ur love. Secondly, there's nothing embaracing about the guy having a girlfriend. u still can talk with him, can't u.?
Thirdly, do not take the one u love as if he's a God. he's a simple guy with simple life difficulties and joys.
Forthly, do not try to act like u are a super star or super someone - it looks just silly.
if i were u , i'd just get to know him better: get into the same activities, go to see teh show's he's in an 'accidently'start a conversation about anything(ask him where's his medalion from; doeas he always liked teh band that plays thsi song, what a nice day, etc)
teh main thing - it all suppose to look natural. Just go ahead and make him wanna say how he feels about u.
Do not e shamed of anything!
2006-06-06 05:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by rafinuota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a girl he is a guy. He will never guess that you are interested if you say nothing to him. Fina a quiet moment when he is alone and you are alone and ask him out. If he has a gf or is not interested then at least you know. Hinting is a waste of time and could lead to misinterpretation and misunderstandings. Say clearly what you feel and be prepared for whatever answer you get. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Good luck.
2006-06-16 23:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by reallythinking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him in class and let the coversation keep going as you both leave. Walk with him, and when he gets to his destination, ask him,(movies are a great way to get a guys attention) ask him if he has seen a certain movie that is out in theaters, and ask him"would you like to go see it with me?" He will smile I promise you that because there is one thing girls don't know and that is that guys love to be asked out. So he will smile and either "Yes" or say " I am sorry but I have a girlfriend" But the smile on his face will keep you happy. That smile will be worth a million words. It will let you know he liked you.
2006-06-20 04:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by undeabajo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're in college I would say that you got ripped off. You might want to continue in another school where they actually teach you something. I don't think you're ready for any kind of serious relationship yet because you don't understand the true meaning of love yet. Just bounce around a little more until you figure it out, then look for your true feelings.
2006-06-18 20:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try writing the feelings you have for him down in a letter, then try to put it on his table before he talks into class, or just be brave and hand it to him. Or you could try asking him out for a drink and burger or something like that. If you don't try you will only end up regreting it. Trust me from past experence it work's. GOOD LUCK (not that you will need it)
2006-06-18 05:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey babytiger get his number and talk to him. Anyway he is leaving then for what you are waiting? If he likes you, accepts you then there is no problem. If he says he has gf or he dont like you, dont worry, anyway he is out of your sight and doesnt make much of a difference. Above all what you need is result and you have to get it. Right?
2006-06-14 19:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by urbanbabu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people who are this interested in someone would know a lot about him by now. Have you asked about him? If he has gf etc then find someone else who really wants to be with you. If not take the opportunity to be friendly, could be he shy too!!
2006-06-13 20:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing a sweet letter to him telling ur feelings and also ask if he has a gf or not. If he has then fine. Tell him not to have any hard feelings and just try to be his friend. HOPE FOR THE BEST AND PREPARE FOR THE WORST, sweetie! Dont lose heart!!!
2006-06-19 23:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by light princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are very hard to understand. I think that you should stay in school longer to learn grammar and spelling and perhaps speech might be good for you to look into as well.
you seem a little young, but, if he is interested in you, he will show you signs. but, if he doesn't talk to you except for when you are in class, then it seems unlikely that he has any feelings towards you.
2006-06-20 03:35:15 · answer #11 · answered by navymilitarybrat76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋