It does not have tastebuds. Almost every guy that ever said they loved me licked my A** during oral sex.
I like it alot. But, damn if i am going to return that nasty favor.
2006-06-06 05:14:49 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No unless you're a guy. But It's personal preference. I've dated women the loved giving me head but I could not go down on them.
2006-06-16 15:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that is your choice if that is what you don't want to do you can find other ways to fullfill the pleasure with him without doing that. So no I don't think you are selfish at all because I don't like anal sex but I make it up by giving oral sex instead and my husband is satisfied and he understands. So no you don't have to return the favor do something else to blow his mind!
2006-06-20 04:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't care whether or not you return that "nasty favor", then no, you are not selfish. But, if they do want the favor returned, then yes, you should return the favor, or make it clear to him that you don't enjoy licking butt-crack, but if he wants to lick yours, then it's okay. If you do that, then the choice is up to him, and if he wants to be a sucker, then hey, that's on him too.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-18 19:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I think for all good interest for you, you should cool off and not come too close physically. Sex is not everything. From what i read, it is sure clouding things up in your relationship with guys. Please turn away for a while. Don't rush into a physical relationship until after your nuptials. You know, you can have sex many times a day for the rest of your life then, so what's the hurry now? Get the drift?
2006-06-18 06:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Philanthropist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Pete's sake, you're having sex. Enjoy it and do what you want or are willing to do. If you don't like, just don't. Explain to them, no ... but offer them something else ... something you're comfortable with and are willing to do. It doesn't have to be anything spectacular or kinky like "tossing salad" (that's the name for the anal licking thing). But guys are simple in that respect. Offer up something else that you're really into and they'll completely push the salad aside for the main dish and dessert.
2006-06-20 04:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about the guys who never said they loved you,did they do that to you also?
but it is all what you like.if you like receiving it doesn't mean you have to give in return.if a guy is perceptive he will pick up on the fact that you like it but don't do it in return.so if he likes doing he will continue.otherwise he was most likely doing it to you so you would return the favor
2006-06-17 13:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by STEVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to do what your comfortable with. I don't really think your being selfish. He may be getting off on doing it, and doesn't care if he gets a turn. You need to talk to him about it. Have you considered showering together first.....paying special attention to cleaning his A*S? I would think you'd be safe then. But, if it's not for you.....it just isn't.
2006-06-16 18:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to like their a$$, just lick real close. It's called the perineum. The spot just below the sac before you get to the hole.
2006-06-17 19:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tim H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you are not willing to do the same for your mate don't ask for it! Yes, it is selfish. Kinda like letting someone take you out to eat knowing you would not do the same for them.
2006-06-20 04:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by dd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not selfish i mean I've had guys do that to me to and i never do it back i think its nasty but hey if they do it to me i don't mind but i ain't going to do it to them if you know what i mean lol
2006-06-19 07:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋