Well i was in a goverment office or state office i should say an my son a 3 year old took a toy from another girl an i went an hand it back to the girl cause the toy was a toy there not belonging to the girl an well her mother said you better get him before i kick your *** so what would you do in that case ? I got my son an walked away but he throw his temp an then i left there not to get anything done was crying cause him begin this way. Help a mom in lost control Illinois who has tryed everything.
2006-06-06 05:06:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I took care of the problem with my child but she tryed to step in how do i handle it an let her know in a nice way i got it under control with out her adivce or help ?
2006-06-06 08:34:27 · update #1
First off you tell the other mom that she needs to mind her own business and stick to parenting her own kid and not yours. Then you need to reprimand your child immediately for his actions. My parents would have immediately taken me to a bathroom or out of the building and spanked me for taking a toy. Being a parent means that you have to invoke consequences for when your child misbehaves. If he throws a tantrum you just drag him out to the car and spank his butt and make it clear that his behavior is unacceptable. Every time that you don't make it clear what is wrong the child assumes that their behavior is then ok.
2006-06-06 05:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be more firm with your child! Even if he throws a tantrum, you dont him to grow up being one of those that will rebel at you when he gets the chance, you may love him to death, but you have to show him the way. He's only 3, so i wouldn't worry about it, children will throw tantrums....even when they're 20. You'll learn from experience what to do the next time....try more things like warning him that he wont get any ice cream later or any t.v if he doesnt stop.
2006-06-06 05:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by achaelray07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unsure of your problem/question. If in doubt, perhaps some assistance with parenting skills...If I'm understanding 'lost control' with your son's behavior.
Or the inability to understand the ignorance of the woman...???
In either case, start by taking a deep breath, to bring some control to yourself. Then continue to work on the world...which I know, seems helpless at times....More deep breaths.
Try calm quiet moments of meditation, when able.
2006-06-06 05:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I understand your question....
Its good that you didnt fall to her level, but you should have stood your ground at least. Your actions gave her power. Next time, suggest to someone working there that you were threatened. If its a government building, they'll take care of it!
2006-06-06 05:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by carolinagrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically I don't quite understand what you r trying to say. If the toy is not his give it back.
2006-06-06 05:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think walking away was the best thing you could do (if I understand you correctly?), you need a firmer grip on your child......
2006-06-06 05:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by skyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not understand the problemo
2006-06-06 05:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋