2006-06-06 05:00:48 · 24 answers · asked by Pete Allison 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No difference, unless he used it to manipulate others and was lazy or acted like he could not do things on his own...but that would be the same if he did not have a disability.
some men think women should do "women" things and men should have a job and do nothing else. meanwhile the woman cooks, cleans, etc..no one wants to be a care taker all the time to anyone.
I would marry a man who had a disability. I dated a man who had one arm because of polio, and a guy who was blind and would work on the computer with a voice piece and Braille, knew a man in a wheel chair, who was my age , etc...as long as he was willing to do what he could, and did things for me too sometimes, it was not an issue...after all it is 50:50.
2006-06-06 05:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by CHERYL S3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is commendable that some folks out there say, "No, it doesn't make a difference". The truth of the matter is that it DOES make a difference and if you don't think about this upfront you are going to be in a heap of trouble down the line when reality sets in. Before you get too entangled, step back and try to really see what you are getting into. There are more considerations here than "attraction" and "disability". If you can accept the reality and realize where and what you are getting into, then proceed, but with a lot of caution.
2006-06-06 05:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by themainsail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might depends on the disabilty. Some disabilities leave a person lacking empathy or social skills, to me that would make a difference. If it was a physical or learning disability and some behavioral it wouldn't make a difference.
2006-06-06 05:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if a woman likes a guy for his personality and finds him attractive, disability shouldn't make a difference.
2006-06-06 05:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by smalltowngirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Why should a disability make a difference? And for those who say it does matter, maybe you're just shallow or close minded because I have dated guys with disibilites and had lots of fun
2006-06-06 05:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if you are attracted to someone with a disability it didn't make a difference.
2006-06-06 05:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I'm sure that it won't be easy, but no relationship is easy. I've never been one to let personal appearence judge who I'm attracted to and who I'm not. There' so many more, much more important, things to focus on.
If the attraction, chemistry, and passion are there then go for it and don't ever be affraid of what others are thinking about you as long as you two are happy.
2006-06-06 05:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women are less attracted to a man with a mental disability, mostly because he cannot provide for her emotionaly. Physical limitations are more easily overcome in todays world.
I think if i loved someone it wouldnt matter what was wrong with them. I believe in people being made whole, and that love is blind.
2006-06-06 05:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend on the disability if it down there yes will make the difference in me. LOL
2006-06-06 05:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh...NO...!!! tell me more of your disability. that will help alot. however the answer is still no...and trust me ...first hand experience here. the man i am referring to..is paralyzed from the waist down...and even in his wheelchair...his sex appeal is well noticed. there is more to a man than no use of his bottom half or any other part of his anatomy. one just learns to compensate elsewhere lol...his smile..heart..sense of humor and intelligence go far beyond.!!!
.i will be glad to talk with you on this subject. and u can email me at...
carmack2@swbell.net
2006-06-06 05:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋