What attracts you to a 21yr old and why in the world you would think that you may have a chance with her?I mean i respect old people with all my heart but it just kills me when a old guy ask me out and he is even older then my father.All the young guys of my age just stare at me and keep on walking.i am going insane.old guys would talk about the cando they have they have a boat etc etc.Why in the world should i care what you have when i can get it own my on.it just hurts alot.:-(..should i start wearing tiny clothes and expose more body to have them stay away from me?i am not raised like that.what should i do to have them stay away from me and not make me feel disgusting about myself?
2006-06-06 04:49:57 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, don't wear skimpy clothes. I believe modesty is the best way to go. You can still be sexy and be modest. So the young guys are not giving you much attention? I am only 28, but maybe the older guys see a maturity level in you that isn't common for someone your age. Why they think they have a chance, I don't know. Maybe the younger guys that you say ignore you just aren't ready for someone like you. Maybe some guys just want a fling and a little fun and are looking for someone who exudes that personality. Feel free to PM me if you want to chat.
2006-06-06 05:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by mye77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everyone is different.
I have a 24 yo girl that asked me to be her dom. She probably could not find a guy her age with my experience.
I did not approach her, she approached me.
As for out in public, at a bar or club. I've asked younger women to dance if I arrived without a date. And some do and some don't accept a dance. Some accept more. Some don't
So as for why we ask. Let get simple. Ask for the sale. You never know what will happen until you ask. If everyone wore a sign that told everybody else what they would accept and not accept in being approached, what they wanted in life, want they wanted in the next 15 mins then no one would have to approach you closer than to read your sign. So get yourself some t-shirts made up with your requirments to talk to you.
It's kinda funny to me that you are wanting NO communication and most women complaine about men not communicating enough.
So you don't want older men to "hit" on you. OK, just tell them no. But understand there are some women that judge men on their behavior, appearance, and personality. Not their age. Oh wait, are you saying you discriminate?
Watch what you do as it might get turned back and used against you.
Food for thought. Why do you think Hugh Hefner has 3 GF's, What could a 70+ yo man possibly offer them that they would want. Different strokes for different folks.
Diversity is a wonderful thing
2006-06-06 06:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each cellular has DNA and it is consisted of two strands tightly woven around one yet another. the situation that stops the two strands from breaking aside is termed a telomeric cap (that's random nucleotide sequences called nonsense codons. Codon is a three sequence of nucleotides that codes for amino acids eg. CUU is a amino acid called proline . A nonsense codon is one which doesnt code for any amino acid production) each time your cells divide a small sequence is lost there by utilising lowering the soundness of the cellular's DNA (in layman's words). this might ultimately lead do maximum of Ur cells' DNA starting to be risky. and frequently whilst a mistake happens in DNA the cellular will carry out vehicle cytolysis (cellular suicide) to avert problems. So once you're old maximum of ur cells telomeric caps would be low and that they are services to die whilst they attempt to divide.. Whats particularly exciting approximately this concept is the end result it has on evolution (because of the fact this occurs on the two meiotic to boot as mitotic divisions. meaning that a species grows old too earlier it mutates.. yet thats a diverse tale)
2016-12-08 17:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you giving them so many thoughts. Ignore them, snub them, humiliate them There are thousands ways to teach them a lesson. Don't show care or concern for them as it kindles false hopes. Be firm and consistent. And stop blaming yourself for it. It is about them and not about you. Why should you feel disgusted? Remember always - don't take tension. Give it back to the persons who are making your life horrible.
2006-06-06 04:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by HarshaW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone gal.men all ova the world especially old mature men are like that.the best medicine i have given them is to embarass them before other people. he just ask me out and am like excuse me Mr...dont u respect uself men u r the age of my grandfather.gal he will coil and laugh sheepishly n will neva repeat it especially on u .
2006-06-06 04:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect they are responding to your inner blonde. Perhaps you should go ahead and get yourself a boat and sail off on it.
2006-06-06 04:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 34, what attract me to women is thier personality.
2006-06-06 04:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Address them as "Grandpa" even if they are as old as your father and do it innocently and cheerfully.
2006-06-06 05:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by adithyaghare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋