I broke up wit my boifriend because i acused him of cheating on me, (and he realli wasnt), and he is giving me a second chance. But hes acting diff then wheat he was before, he wants me to buy him a atattoo, and i am, but i dont have the money right now and he wants it RIGHT NOW and hes gettin mad cause i don't have the money. Is he using me this time around or is he still upset wit me for acusing him?
2006-06-06 04:46:46 · 8 answers · asked by lilchristaboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's using you. What does a tatoo have to do with anything?
2006-06-06 04:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by thepathfinder804 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats normally what happens I believe. I think hes mad at you but now in the relationship he decided to have the pants in the relationship. You made the mistake so hes in control now. You feel bad that you made a mistake and hes taking advantage of it. In his mind you have to do this cause YOU made the mistake. You owe him something and you're going to do it RIGHT? Thats what he wants! I wouldn't put up with it though. Put your foot down. Not the first time I say this... noone needs to be put down in anyway shape or form. Tell him look BUDDY, you're going to get your tatoo when I am ready to get your tatoo and if by then you deserve your tatoo! Not happy then get your own tatoo!!
Ask yourself another question.. do you want this guy to have a tatoo that he will carry for the rest of his life that came from you? Technically thats some kind of strange commitment
2006-06-06 04:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend! Do you really need to buy someone love? I don't think your first issue with him was off the mark. You need to find a new man that loves you girl.
2006-06-06 04:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you. If a tatoo is what is gonna make him happy and not you he aint worth it. if a simple iam sorry doesnt work sending him packing.
2006-06-06 04:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by topman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it definately sounds like he's using you cause he feels like he need to get something back from you weither its something physical or not cause he feels hurt and that hurt turned into like revenge i guess
2006-06-06 04:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by justaguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so.. he sounds liek an @ss hole.. if he really loves you and wants you back you should NOT have to buy anything for him.. sounds pretty selfish to me...
2006-06-06 04:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using him, you don't owe him anything and you don't have to buy him anything if he wants a tattoo then let him pay for it. why should you reward him for hurting you.
2006-06-06 04:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is using you. DUH. whats ink got to do with love.
tell him to phuck off and get a gawwdam job!!!
2006-06-06 04:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋