Should I believe him?

Question

There is a guy who would like me to be his gf. He has told me that he loved me and is always very nice and attentive.
But I found out that he had sex with another girl and when I asked him if that was true he said that it was just an one night stand and has nothing to do with his feelings for me.
Should I believe him when he says he loves me and accept to be his gf?

Answer 1

Yes because as long as he was single at the time it does not mean his feelings for you are not what he says,

Answer 2

ask urself this question.do u really love him?do you think he loves u like he claims or just wanna have sex with u? if he claims he loves u how could he go for a one nite stand? do u know him enough to believe him? there are lots of unanswered questions.

he claim it was a one nite stand, if u said yes and he went out with his friend and doesnt come back until the next day and he claims he is tired wot will u be thinking?one nite stand? comon do u trust him? u sound desperate am sorry but ??/???? am short of words it goes two ways he might be tellin the truth or lying,take more time to study him, and finally think and meditate over it before u answer him if yes or no

Answer 3

First: Sex is just a physical act so dont make such a major deal about him doing it with someone else. Sounds like youre jealous.
Second: If hes not in a relationship with you, how can he say he loves you? He might LIKE you, or care for you deeply, but LOVE you? Thats crap.
Lastly: if you want to be his girlfriend then be his girlfriend, dont ask what other people would do as theyre not you. Follow your heart

Answer 4

There you go again confusing sex and love, girls!

Sex to men (and increasingly women) is a physical "itch" that needs to be "scratched". It can mean nothing or something.

It's as if you'd prefer it if he were a virgin?!?!

Ah - you mean "while he's in love with you".

Well, right now he's in love with you "in principle" and "from a distance" - so sure, he can diddle other women.

If you two get together in a relationship where you're agreed that you're "exclusive" with each other, and you're in love with each other "in practice" and "close up" - then neither of you get to diddle other people...

Answer 5

Hard to say, maybe he'd like you to fall for him, so that he can have a 'one nite stand' with you as well. Give it some more time. No need to be in a hurry to be his gf. If he loves you as he says, he will be patient.

Answer 6

yes believe him. Think about things now. He has laid it out on the line for you, told you how he feels about you. And it seems like you kind of have kept him waiting for a response on how you feel. Is he supposed to bask in the warmth of your neutral feelings? You cannot blame him for something he did when you are not saying you really want to be with him.

Answer 7

Hello! there.
I love the stars above me
I love cold nights
I love sunny days
I'd love to space-travel
I love my music(the music I write)
I love myself,I believe there must be some one made to love me, to care for me but TIME IS ALWAYS THE RIGHT TIME and doubt destroys anything in your heart.

Answer 8

Run.... If he says he loves you these feelings could not of developed overnite therefore he slept with someone else while claiming to have feelings for you. Save yourself alot of heartache and find someone else.

Answer 9

Sure, if you want, just guard your heart, because if you "love" someone, you don't want one night stands with someone else. The biggest reason I say ya, is because he admitted it, which at least means some charater.

Answer 10

depends on how long ago the 1 nite stand was and when he told u he loves u. hey he was probably thinking of u while he had his wicked way,