he was honest enough to tell me he didn't want anything serious. Now i broke it off with him and miss him like crazy. Has anyone been in this situation? Now that i called it off....is there a chance he will miss me and want to came back and committe? 6 yrs off and on (Friends with benefits). Do i still have a chance with him?
2006-06-06 04:28:17 · 9 answers · asked by dodgergirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
6 years is pretty long and yet he does not want anything serious. Obviously you both want different things. Whats' the point then? Perhaps you grow too comfortable with him not necessary content. Time to move on and look for someone different.
2006-06-06 04:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if in the 6 yrs he never changed his mind about making it more serious, I am sorry to tell you leave him alone. He will not miss you, he will just move on to the next friend with benefits. This guy does not want anything serious, he just wants to do his own thing. It's sad that you wasted 6 yrs. on this nut case but move on.
2006-06-06 04:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! He already told you he didn't want you. Also, a guy KNOWS if you are going to be the "Mrs." after 6 months. That is a proven fact. Not after 6 years. You were just that, friends with benefits. To keep around when he was in between other relationships, boredom, felt sorry for you pathetic ***, etc. Move on and work on your self-esteem.
2006-06-06 04:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a chance but odds are that he only wanted to be with you for the sex and has other "friends with benefits" to turn to. This is what eventually happens in these situations. One person develops feelings and the other one doesn't. In the end they can't even be friends.
2006-06-06 04:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah u still have a chance with him but if he doesn't want to committe u made the rigth decision.
2006-06-06 04:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by softballplayer913 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could but why did u settle when u obviously wanted more ?? ask him back if he comes back he is yours forever if not keep looking.
2006-06-06 04:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he do that? Thats like bringing sand to the beach
2006-06-06 04:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u can't get him to. Guys don't commit. Don't be a slut next time.
2006-06-06 05:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do but you need to call him and tell him how you feel.
2006-06-06 04:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋