i do flirt around with guys, and i do like having a great time. im out with friends alot, but i can never get myself to really go out with someone. i always feel like i dont have time and i tell myself that there's no point goin out with him becuz i wouldnt have time to build a relationship with him anyway.
is that possible? or is there something i'm trying to deny? like the fact that i've not met someone i really like?... but the fact is, i really dont see myself having extra time for a relationship. it just feels so troublesome and costly and time consuming and emotionally draining........................
2006-06-06 04:25:26 · 6 answers · asked by lil'sammy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i use that as an excuse sometimes, but you know that there's no one you really want to date right now , anyway, right? so why bother? i think you're fine the way you are-single! if you meet a guy who is really worth it and just does it for ya, you'll make time for him! dont' stress... it's good you're holding out for someone you really like.
2006-06-06 04:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sum ppl r comfortabl havin flings n flirtin n romancin with several appealin opposite sex ppl 'round dem, but it doesnt mean u wont still meet sum1. I usually have a fear dat I may not get fings rite wen I meet dat sum1 n dats pretty discouragin...der r other reasons y 1 may not want 2 get emotionally involvd (d emotional drain is a big part tho), but I fink sum classes r skippabl jus 4 d sake of avin fun.
2006-06-06 11:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Concoction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, we are all different and there is nothing wrong with you. Right now in your life dating simply isn't a priority. That is your choice for your life and so while it may not be how others feel it is how you feel and is the right thing for you. Enjoy life and when your ready for love then I'm sure it will find you.
2006-06-06 11:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and don't want to be attached, there is nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you are always honest so no one's feelings get hurt and be true to yourself. Focusing on your studies is the most important thing for you right now anyway.
2006-06-06 11:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that it is an excuse. You have your priorities set on school and you will have time for romance and relationships later
2006-06-06 11:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a little of colmn A and a little of colmn B
2006-06-06 11:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋