for everything when you two go out?
2006-06-06 04:20:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is that the kind of treatment you think about when you think of a Boyfriend? I don’t think so I think…No. No I know you can do much better than that. If he is just as close in age as you and has this kind of limited focus then you’re in for a long bumpy ride in a car with the windows up and no ac.
Try this out the next time the two of you go out call it a personal outing (meaning: you pay for you and me for me) and if he has a problem doing that, start looking for someone that can and wants to spend the time and money it takes to care for some one of you incredible status.
2006-06-06 04:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ray-Ray 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a good girlfriend that really love his boyfriend would pay for him is okay hopefully he will get a job soon don't break up with him because you have to pay all the time but yes if he doesn't get a job soon or looks like he is not interested in getting a job then yes you should leave him
2006-06-06 11:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long hasnt he had a job? If it s temporary and you think he'd do the same for you, then go ahead, its no big deal.
However, if he is a LEECH and doesnt show any desire to break that pattern, then 1st) stop taking him out, tell him that your constantly having to pay is getting to be a real stress on your finances; 2nd) dump him & move on
2006-06-06 11:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by mand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your choice. I did this for 12 years. But he cleaned the house and did my laundry. Is he contributing his part. THink of a stay-home mom. Her hubby has to pay when they go out but she is providing an important service. Basically it's up to you. I think it's frustrating you or you would not have asked about it. Just stop taking him out and tell him he can cook a romantic dinner for you. Of course you still have to buy the groceries but make him go to the store while you are working.
2006-06-06 11:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him he needs to shape up get some pride.How can you feel all pimp that if you don't even have a job cause if you don't this relation ship ain't going anywhere
2006-06-06 11:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by DollarBills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't provide for you now, what would happen if you were to marry of have any kids. Sounds like he is too immature and he should change or you should find someone that would take care of you!
2006-06-06 11:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend. Preferably one with some pride.
2006-06-06 11:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum
Either he gets off his bum and gets a job, or...you leave him. A man needs to be able to support himself and his girlfriend.
2006-06-06 11:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Axiom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, for how long now that he is not working? is he looking or going to school? is he worth your energy for the relationship?
you need to give more details.
2006-06-06 11:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would have to get lost or get a job, one or the other.
2006-06-06 11:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by bye bye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋