Okay ladies I have a question for you. Let me give you some background on a situation I am in. I have a female friend who I met two years ago. I met her b/c my college roomate lived accross the hall from her. I lived 1 building away. She would come over to my roomies place when I was there but I would ignore her as she is a hot chick and she knows it. Long and the short of it we became great friends. We ended up hooking up..never dated. She calls me 3 times/day as we are in the same industry. On Monday mornings she grills me about who I was with over the weekend and if I have been sleeping with anybody. In response I grilled her and she revealed to me that she had hooked up with a guy but she ended it b/c he was superficial and not good husband or father material. yesterday she asked me to go see "the break up"
and have dinner with her. Last yr. she told me that we have an "Ethan Hawk, Winona ryder" kind of thing going on. What does this girl want with me. Does she view me as more?
2006-06-06 03:55:14 · 15 answers · asked by provident1718 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her. She's toying with you.
2006-06-06 03:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by okeydokeycroaky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to be with you because you must be good "husband or father material" to her. But in the mean time I think she wants to "hook up" with other guys. Maybe she thinks you will wait for her to be done whoring around and then you will ask her to marry you or something. I think you need to ask her what it is that she wants from you. Maybe it would be best for you to just leave her alone or strickly be friends with no benefits.
2006-06-06 11:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by datchic412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'd have a talk with her and find out exactly what she is after. And then you can piece together what you want. But really it sounds like she is just playin with you and you keep lettin it happen. Now if that's all you 2 want it to play around its all good but if feelings are involved well time to have that talk
2006-06-06 11:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her out to dinner and sit and talk with her. Ask her exactly how she feels about you. Sounds like she may have some serious feelings for you, but are not sure that they are returned. Now, if you don't feel that way for her, be prepared to tell her.
Sounds like she COULD be the stalker type though, so be careful :-)
2006-06-06 11:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey listen..in the end Ethan and Winona got together. Take a chance and tell her you really want her badly.
2006-06-06 10:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to chance loosing what you've got, go for it and ask her out. If you want to keep her as a good friend, then leave well enough alone.
Once that bridge is crossed you can never go back to the way it was.
2006-06-06 11:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got the best of both worlds with you.
A boyfriend, friend & someone to confide in. Like the comment above I think she's using you.
Make a stand for yourself & ask her "one way or the other love, stop using me" !
2006-06-06 11:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she views you as more. But in all fairness, she might be on the lookout for something better, but keeping you there in case you are the "something better".
Ya'll are friends with benefits, question is... what do you want with her? Do you view her as more?
2006-06-06 10:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you, but is perhaps holding you at arm's length... perhaps she is afraid of spoiling the friendship.
Go to the movie, have dinner with her, talk about things. If she is really your friend, you should both be able to talk frankly about what you feel.
2006-06-06 11:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you want from her? Do you want to be with her? If so, call her out on her s h i t.
Either your the guy she wants for now or are you the guy she wants forever.
But again do you want to be either of these guys?
2006-06-06 11:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by princesscutesmile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting game she's playing... I would view it as a flirtation nothing more.
2006-06-06 11:01:05 · answer #11 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋