marriage. any solutions for me to enjoy freely as it was created to be enjoyed
2006-06-06 03:28:59 · 30 answers · asked by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well go for a test. its the best idea and have him get tested too. also durex makes condoms that are ultra thin. they really feel like he is not wearing one. its the closest thing to the real thing that there is.
2006-06-06 03:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
end being a wimp. Take it from lots of adult adult males that condoms are general. U refuse an ur possibly to get an answer that quantities to 'no glove no love'. And any self respecting female who will sleep with u without one is extra possibly to have the styles of illnesses u do no longer want to get. the only common a thank you to guard urself from HIV an infection is abstinance or condom.
2016-10-30 07:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AIDS is not as much of an epidemic as your high school sex-ed teacher made it out to be. In this time of political correctness, we are afraid to tell people the facts:
HIV/AIDS tends to infect way more of the gay community than the straight community.
HIV spreads fastest among heroin addicts and other IV drug users. It also spreads to the people who sleep with these users.
Many people who get AIDS from either of these causes is embarassed to give the real source and cites the infection as a result of heterosexual contact when it really isn't. Therefore, the number of people getting HIV from hetero contact is highly overblown.
2006-06-06 03:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gonna act like enough of an adult to have sex then act liek the same adult and get tested regularly. You can't try to be mature one way and not the other. Going to take the tests now will save you and others in the future alot of sickness and heartache. Would you want to contract something or give something to your husband down the line becuase you were too afraid to get tested?
2006-06-06 03:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by redladywolf55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms are NOT that big of a deal. The SLIGHT inconvenience FAR OUTHWEIGHS the risks of doing it without one!! You should not be having sex until marriage, anyway, and you both need to get tested before marriage. This is not a joke. IT"S YOUR LIFE!
2006-06-06 03:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by keri l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you certainly have a dilemma don't you! Hiv on one hand, going for tests on the other.... Hmmmm. I think I would chose going for the test over the possibility of death and suffering. One night of unprotected sex is not worth a terrible illness. Good luck
2006-06-06 03:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit the Clint and some HIV patients and ask them if they would were one if they had another chance. Life is good so you better enjoy that why you have time BC ******* raw anti whats up that mess is for the birds girl you crazy or what.
2006-06-06 03:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you worried a bout getting pregnant? Maybe you should just have sex with the one person you care about... then you know if you're both just sleeping with each other then the risk of hiv and stds from otehr random people won't be there...
2006-06-06 03:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the safest way I can think of you to do this is to stay with one person. testing for both of you is a big part of you being sure that youre not going to catch anything that you dont want. HIV is not the only thing to be scared of, theres tons of other stds that can really mess you up in the long run. you dont want to get herpes, genetal warts, gonorrhea, chlamydia, etc. theres so many things out there that you can catch its scary. one night of good pleasure is not worth you catching something that can alter your life forever. not to mention, if you get herpes or something like that.. nobody is going to want to be with you at all? that would make it hard for you to be with others in your future (nobody in their right mind wants stds).. its all how you want to live, but you should be safe because its your body and its the only one youre going to have for the rest of your life. be safe
2006-06-06 03:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always use condoms, I would like to go without but I value my health and that of my partner more than my own comfort, condoms are better than ever these days and are so thin that you can hardly feel them, never go without protection or you will be sorry one day
2006-06-06 03:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by lizarddd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we humans have screwed up so much we don't get that luxury anymore. You WILL be taking your chances if you don't use a condom and don't test yourself...PERIOD. I agree with the other response...be a modern day hero and hold out for your HUSBAND to go bare-back. That is a huge gift to you and him for being so responsible. It will be worth the wait and you won't be DEAD.
2006-06-06 03:34:10 · answer #11 · answered by Vauntess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋