I have been in a relationship for most of my adult life but after my last one ended I said that I wanted to just be single, now I dont want this. I have fallin for the first guy that I went out with have only be single for about 10 months. But now I want to be with someone that doesnt care if I am alive. I hate being by myself an feel like time is running out!! Do you guys think its true that there is someone for everybody? My ex told me no one will ever love me, that they will only use me for sex an my money. I feel he could be right!!!
2006-06-06 03:27:33 · 15 answers · asked by dljtr37 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is some one 4 every body dont listen to yo x he just wants u back
2006-06-06 03:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Singletary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if u don't like urself very much. Why can't u enjoy ur time alone (without a man)? These are the times u need to get urself together and thinking positively about urself. Ur "ex" could be right, people prey on those that are weaker. Some men look for women with low self esteem and use them for all they got. I used to have low self-esteem,but gotta love urself. try being single. Take urself to dinner, movies, read a book at Borders, go shopping, go to church---do something that you enjoy. Get a massage, a facial, go to the spa. I hear they have some for just $25 a day. If you can't afford that. pamper urself--take a long bath. soak ur feet, do ur nails etc.. Concentrate on YOU. I do believe that there is somebody for everybody,but nobody is gonna love you until you love urself. And even then, you may still be single. Being single is not so bad, cause we don't know what anybody else is going thru unless we're in their shoes. So, live ur life and make the choice to be happy with yourself.
2006-06-06 10:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by gzmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in selecting for marriage at this juncture because you had some bitterest experience of all these problems.The man who had said that no one will ever love you ,is not a God. Even now You stand a chance if You are repenting for your past actions and the best remedy is not to repeat the same mistake again.Try to be a good lady and change your attitudes .I remember the entire public was throwing stones at a PRO,at that time Jesus said wait If anyone is pure and not done any mistakes in life only empowered to punish her.Then every one kept quiet.Means that no one is perfect even including me. Hence please forget all those bad dreams and start a new life. I am sure and certain You will meet some one who is destined to marry You and leed a happy life.
i wish you good luck.
2006-06-06 10:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah your ex is a jerk. Why the hell would you date a guy like that in the first place... I don't think that there is necessarily someone for everyone, but I think if you keep yourself open maybe you can find a guy who isn't a complete douche bag. Don't listen to him he's a hater! Try not giving people sex or money, until you find out who you can trust.
2006-06-06 10:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen you him he is just wanting to bring you down. So you've made a few bad choices in men. It happens. And stop chasing after the one who doesn't care you dont need that. And yes there is someone for everyone. there is way to many ppl out there. So go get urself together and all dressed up get ur a** out there. Can't find anyone just sittin there.
2006-06-06 10:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear , i was touched to read what u said , ur ex is just trying to break ur self confidence , dont u ever give him the chance to do so , yes i agree that everyon has his own lover waiting some place , look at the happiness in u , if u find it then u will be happy if not dont search for happiness outside coz it starts inside u , i beleive u will find him so soon , just smile and be patient ;)
2006-06-06 10:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by EDWARD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definately find someone. It may take a couple of bad dates with some bad people, but sooner or later someone will come along and sweep you off your feet. It just takes some trial and error. The person may come from somewhere you least expect it.
2006-06-06 10:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... you must work hard on your self. Seems you have a lack of love and respect for your self. Don't believe that they are going to be with you just for sex or money... if you believe that... for sure that is going to be. Think what you want to be, and belive YOU ARE GOOD
2006-06-06 10:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your just trying to hard and if your really an attractive lady then that intimidates guys too.There is someone for everyone and sometime your somebody will find you...Good Luck
2006-06-06 10:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Brozink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u girl don't fall for no guys yet just test the water for now learn how to date u don't need a bf just have friends that could help u deal with ur loneliness
2006-06-06 10:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋