Can you tell me why I am so reluctant and hestitant about asking a woman out on a date? I want some feedback?

Question

I have never had a problem in the past of talking to a woman about dating or anything else for that matter. But since my break-up with my girlfriend almost 6 months ago, I am very leary about approaching a woman and pursuing any relationship. I have been married before a couple of times and I even retain a very friendly relationship with my ex-wives. After the divorces I had no problem asking a woman out on a date. But since my girlfriend and I split up I do have this problem. I loved my ex-wives dearly. I loved my ex-girlfriend even more so. I was crazy about her. She treated me so horrible that nobody would believe me. Some friends believe me because they have seen what a person on "meth" is capable of. My girlfriend is strung out on the stuff very bad. That is the reason I left her. But anyway, I want to go on with my life, I am basically way over the grieving one experiences over a break-up. I see lots of women I would like to ask out. Why can't I do this?

Answer 1

perhaps you already reach the conclusion how your relationship will end everytime you meet someone new. And you are tired of going through the same motion , wasting time and energy for the same results?

Answer 2

You know what your problem is Fergy; first of all it's your name Fergy,In spanish it means *****, and that's your problem with women you should be hitting on men! secondly anyone with any common sence can tell you are a liar, you remind me of another liar whose handle ends in blu, you know who I'm talking about, don't you! You know you two could get yourselves in alot of trouble by blabbing all over this site trying to get sympathy from strangers, who don't care to find out the truth regarding you two, in fact your *** is already grass and it will be mowed shortly! Thirdly, who's the one on drugs, I don't believe your ex-girlfriend is the one using, it's you isn't it. Your blowing it pal, and it shows. Listen Fergy, if you and your x-wives got along so wonderfully, why did they dump your lying ***, could it be that they didn't believe your bullshi*! Listen to yourself;"she treated me so horrible that no one would believe me"Hello mr.Fergy, how horrible would that be? who knows! Let me tell you something about yourself; you don't like women nor do you know how to be honest with your self or your feelings! Women can spot this in you before you even open your mouth. You think you have a problem with women because , you do, you're a 3 time louser and you're working on your 4th, and that's just the 4 that we know about! Now we learn from your big mouth that you and #4 have a problem with your ex-friends and have started tearing up their property! Today is your 1st month anniversary on this site, heed this date, it's speaking to both you and your new crime spree slut! Get some special help, get off the drugs, there not for you, dump that lying *****, she's going to jail anyway and make restitution to the others you've lied to in the past, forget about women until you grow up, and wipe that 666 off your forehead, dumbass. I'm sorry, you asked for it.

Answer 3

what u r going through is normal , it seemd u loved u ex girl friend and from u comment that u have good relationship with u ex wifes ; seems u r tender sensitive , do not worry u will go through this .just belive that new relationship has nothing to do with old one . hope i have been usefull
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Answer 4

b/c you are either worried that they will regect you or you still love your ex girlfriend go back to her & try to help with the meth problem try to get her off it or just ask a girl out that you already know that you think is cute or good lookin' just be a go getter & never stop smiling b/c you naver know who is falling in love with it

Answer 5

ya.its so sad.but its good u want to mend it again,ur life.
believe that if u have one bad experience with someone it doesnt mean all people r of same kind.u will definitely find good with the bad.so move on,have confidence and trust ur instincts.there is nothing better than having a partner to share urself with.try ur luck and im sure u will find ur happiness again.

Answer 6

u tell me