can you forgive your child when they hurt the parents by not being loyal, even when you give them everything,?

Answer 1

Yes,
All children will hurt their parents at some point, in different ways.
It is COMPLETELY forgivable.
How can a parent NOT forgive!

Children make mistakes, it's part of growing up.
We as parents must be their constant... always loving, always supportive, always encouraging. Turning away from them when they've done wrong, will push them onto wrong pathways.

We must be there to bring them back on track, and always be loving and forgiving.

Answer 2

Your first job as a parent should always be unconditional love.. No matter what a child has done forgive , forgetting may never come but if you truly love your child there is nothing that canprevent you from forgiving and continue the relationship....Loyal to whom? if they choose the other parent in a divorce sitruation there are probaly underlyingf factors , such as a child being bought....

Answer 3

Forgiveness is a quality hard to acheave but in our children we must. Say you don't you loose the love from your child when they grow up you loose that and well everything. Being hurt by our children is so hard to take as we feel it so much more for the bond and love we have for them can not ever be measured. And its is that reason why we must remember that they are still only children no matter hard grown up they act, and that one day they will understand the pain we went through, understanding that will be will they grow up and learn more about life and emotions. You should however not give them everything in life, they need to reach for things as it is a teaching method in life. They will never know what it is to have ambition and earned anything, especially when everyhting is given. Don't be cruel but kids need a balance that is what you must find. And you must tell them what they did and how you feel don't shout talk in a low voice they will be surprised to hear of there mother hurt but remember forgive them. They are your children you carried them you wanted them, and you had at least one thing in life that is pricless. Your children.Good luck

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Answer 4

Yes definitely. Kids need their parents to help guide them by telling them what is right and what isn't. Discipline for such behaviour should be used when necessary. If the child didn't mean to hurt you or someone then forgive them but if they did it deliberately then a mild punishment won't go a miss. If you have given your child the world then try taking away what they really love until they have learnt not to do the sill thing that they have done and work from there.

Answer 5

More to the point, can a child ever forgive a parent who constantly gives them everything, except the thing they want the most, the parent to love them just for what they are, not what the parent wants them to be?

Answer 6

Yes. Mine did. I did some pretty horrible things when I was younger: I stole from them, lied to them, hit them....everything. But at the end of the day, they are children. They are learning...and they have to learn that being disloyal doesn't mean they lose your love and trust.
Unless the child has done something completely inexcusable, then its up to you whether you would forgive them or not.
The love between a parent, be it mother or father and there children never dies. You care for your children no matter how old they are (or how big they get too!)

Answer 7

Yes because their your kids and even though they are they have a right as every human being to there own opinion, too many times parents force there own ideas and ideals on children and feel they are being disloyal when that child does not agree ,you should love and forgive your children most anything because you can pick your friends but you can't pick your family ,Sorry but that's the way it is

Answer 8

i was the worlds worst little tearaway as a child so i can relate to this question, looking back now on some of the horrible things i did asking myself why i can blame societey and other peoples influences.... i was raised in a very poor area where there were always fights robbereys stabbings rapes murders and worse.... i was often used as a scape goat by some of the worst thugs imagineable and became easily influenced.... i was moved from school to school phsycologist to phsycologist from the ages of 7 to 16..... now i am 35 and have made myself very sucsessful since the age of around 21......looking back on some of the horrible things i have done and the wrongs of other people i can sincerely strongly say SOCIETEY is to blame ... the people i associated with whos influence comes naturally are to blame because if i were raised in a high class or rich respectable area then obviously i would have never have done any of the irresponsible things i have....so ask yourself now whos bad influence has been poisoning your childs mind and realise it , dont turn a blind eye to it or be soft like my parents usually were.and do not blame yourself....

Answer 9

I believe, like many of the other people who answered this, that love for a child is unconditional. You must forgive. True, unconditional love forgives and doesn't hold grudges. I can't say that I was that kind of a child. I love my parents. We have had many problems but at the end, we all have to live with what is inside ourselves. I believe we all have to answer for ourselves.

Answer 10

Yes.. every parent forgives the child if there is true love towards that child. But God will never forgive such a child(child in the sense son/daughter, not a small kid)