I just finally got over my ex girlfriend who dumped me about 6 weeks ago after dating for 2+ years because she thought we were to comfortable together. Besides being a couple for over 2 years we were also best friend, but since she dumped me she has barely spoken to me and it seems like she has forgotten that I even exist. As heartbroken as I was I finally got over her just a few days ago. Well, on Sunday she calls me for the first time and I didn’t answer cause I wasn’t near my phone. She left a message asking me how I was doing and to call her back. Should I call her back? I just don’t want to hear her voice and then get all depressed again. It took me so long to get over this girl that threw me away like a piece of trash. Anyone have some advice?
2006-06-06 03:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by Acknutz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Almost all of you told me not to call her so im not going to. I just hope one day she realizes what she lost.
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2006-06-06 03:54:34 · update #1
if you two broke up for only her reason of 'being too comfortable', I would not phone her. It would set you back a bit I think- it does for me anyway. She obviously didn't treasure and revere you or the friendship/relationship you offered. I think your line of thinking is best for you right now, she did in a sense throw you away and you need to be surrounded by people who treat you better than that. Maybe some day you two could be friends, but it might seriously take you years to get over her. Don't waste anymore time and let her keep reeling you back in- go on with your life!
God bless
2006-06-06 03:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 23:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Keisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've finally get over her, just move on. No need to return her call. Sometimes couples get back together simply because they miss the routine that they have been doing for the past few years. It's the problem of not able to cope with change in routine, and not because of she misses you too much. Unless you are so sure she wants you back because she truely loves you... else, be prepared to be ditched again. Anyway, if she truely loves you why would she left you in the first place? Ask yourself if she has taken you for granted during the 2 years relationship? Or it's just simply... she's NOT THAT INTO YOU afterall?
2006-06-06 03:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rebornie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO DONT CALL HER BACK - I had the same experience with my ex Boyfriend, he said he wasnt ready for commitment and we broke up. However he still remained in contact with me via text. I thought oh great he must still have feelings for me but I CAN ASSURE you she like him is looking for an ego boost. The fact you havent contacted her probably makes her think that you moved on but doing what she did is so soul destroying, she doesnt want you but doesnt want anybody else to have you either. By not returning her call you are playing hard to get and this probably turns her on, if she was a decent caring woman she wouldnt put you in this situation. She let you go, she is an ex for a reason. It took me ages to get over my ex but it didnt help with him being in touch, it sucked, i dont reply to him anymore. Trust me it does get better - MOVE ON. She'll wreck your head if shes going to start this crap.
Your back to square one if you call her emotionally after all the work you've done to get over her. Good luck with everything, stay happy :0)
2006-06-06 03:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by sunny01 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should I Call My Ex
2016-10-18 03:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.....don't call her back. U are only opening up a new can of worms. Her well has run dry and she is calling u back for water!!! Let her dehydrate...and u move on. She should have been woman enough to let u know she was not feeling the relationship anymore and want to move, instead she basically told u to kiss her a$$! U can find someone better that would treat u more respect.
2006-06-06 03:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There ya go. Don't talk to her. You've worked so hard to move on. Well it's time for you to be happy. Remember she is the one who said things were to comfortable.( boy was she stupid for that) Right now your feeling pretty mad at her and you have that right. And lets say you 2 were to get back together you'd only hold this against her anyway. So nope dont call her. It was her mistake to let you go. And well dont let it be urs for lettin her back in.
2006-06-06 03:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by one with no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-25 19:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call if it's to hard why do that to yourself, but if you miss your friendship give her a call. It was probably hard for her too that's why she stayed away, now she would like to stay friends so she's calling. Lots of couples stay friends after a break up. But like I said if your not ready don't, give it some more time.
2006-06-06 03:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T CALL HER BACK. MOVE ON. THE GRASS AINT GREEN ANYMORE SO NOW SHE WANTS YOU. ignore all her calls. let her know you are strong. and then after several months and she still is calling you answer the phone and act like you dont know who she is and say hey can you call me back tomorrow i am going out and wont be in until late. that will show her .
2006-06-06 03:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋