when it comes to true love why are some men/women to judgemental over someone who is disabled i'm curious to learn why
2006-06-06 02:59:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they really loved you they wouldn't judge you. Because I've been stuck in that situation for about 10 yrs with siezures so don't feel bad.
2006-06-06 03:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by nana_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sry...I wish I knew why..there's a lotta insecurity going around for folks..I mean whether its a job or at an interview you goto...when they see you have a disability..they're much more apt to look the other way to someone else..even tho it shouldn't happen..and its against the law..it does..:(...and the better part of you wants to believe that such a judgement wouldn't be passed on in relationships...but it does..i have bad breathing trouble..and the minute this girl i knew watched me need and have to take one of my meds..the tone of everything else about us dating changed..and while a huge part of me wanted to believe that it wasn't because of me being sick..it was..as i'd find out the next day from folks who knew her..and so im not sure why someone can be judgemental over someone who is disabled...but we live in a world where this happens...i want to say ignorance, poor character, and a lack of respect for anyone are just some of the things that i think it boils down to when someone sees a person as disabled and considers them for true love..
in a perfect world, i wanna say things like this or what u're referring to don't happen...but they do...
incidentally, there are actually two movies that kinda relate to this in lil prolly insignificant ways...but the first one is At First Sight and the second one is Children of the Lesser God
2006-06-06 10:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know sorry...but i guess it's like everything else it boils down to personal preference..
2006-06-06 10:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are stupid!!!!!!!!
2006-06-06 10:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋