if true love is suppose to be unconditional and from the heart why is it some people pay more of a focus on the outer beauity than the inner beauity and why do some think a realtionship will run it's self when it takes 2 people to keep the relationship thriving
2006-06-06 02:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are immature or shallow and don't realize that outer beauty can only attract, not hold.
Relationships, done right, are one of the hardest things you'll ever do. It often takes everything two people can do to make them work. And "true love" requires an almost continuous decision-making to love the other person. This is often more work than immature people are willing to do.
2006-06-06 03:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
True love is unconditional but under different circumstances people may confuse true love wit infatuation. Outer beauty has really noting to do with love because over time your looks and body will change but whats on the inside will say the same. It takes two people to do almost everything but some times maybe one person might want more control then the other in this case it never really works out. I can run it self if you put it on the right track.
2006-06-06 10:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Yo #1 Day Dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pure and simple it is not love if they only see you from the outside. Looks fade we get older and are youth slowly fades away. But are true beauty lives on inside are hearts and that is where people should really be looking. And yes it does take two people giving there whole self and heart in a relationship. If only one person is doing that and the other one is not the relationship will surely die.
2006-06-06 10:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an interesting question...I don't think there is such a thing as unconditional love between two people who aren't mother and child. Any relationship can go through times of insecurity and all sorts of problems. I supposue it is how we handle the probs that makes a difference. I often find that my feelings towards my hubby are not as strong as they were and it's not that I don't love hime, but that I don't feel loved by him. I don't have your answers, sorry. Best wishes
2006-06-06 10:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they don't know the meaning of true love. you are totally right. true love in unconditional. it forgiving and it looks at inner beauty way before outer beauty. that's what crazy people say. a real relationship needs two dedicated people willing to work. if you don't work at your relationship, there's no hope. and working isn't a bad thing. its just making sure you and your partner are happy.
2006-06-06 10:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by brittney_c_johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are lost in what the world tells you is right and not what their hearts are telling them. Maybe they don't want to find true love because they are scared or they don't think they are ready, but you can find that one person at any time or at any place, so be ready for them. And listen to your heart.
2006-06-06 10:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by malohalo_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that is not true love! You kind of answered your own question. Look up true love and soulmate on the internet. Real love is from the heart. No question about it!
2006-06-06 10:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes there are people who look love in personality basis..their love is just skin deep,they want their girl to be paraded as sexy mannequin it boast their ego,when someone will say good about or praises their GF.
2006-06-06 10:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people are shallow & selfish.
2006-06-06 10:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz they are screwed up!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-06 10:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋