I'm totally lost with this guy, I mean I'm bout to go crazy. ok hears the story. We've been talkin for about 3 months and Sat. made it 3 months and we do prac. everything a b/f g/f does up to almost havin sex. We havn't yet. but we've com pretty damn close. he's even told me he wants too? Well yesturday I said do you know what sat. was he said yeah I've known you for 3 months. And on top of all of that I hear my best friend and him talk reaguraly. And that he told her that he doesn't want a g/f he just wants the benifits of a g/f. I'm so confused right now I dont know what to do. PLZ HELP ME!! tell me what to do.
2006-06-06 02:56:38 · 4 answers · asked by nana_14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really like him too.
2006-06-06 02:57:36 · update #1
Let's start with the facts:
1. U like dude.
2. U have not had sex with him.
3. Been dating 3 months.
4. He talks to ur best friend on the regular?
5. Claims he only wants a friend with benefits, not a girlfriend.
U are in good shape. U haven't had sex with him and according to ur "best friend" he wants to eat his cake and have it too. The question remains--should u deal with this guy? Do u believe ur best friend?and why are they talking on the phone regularly? Do u want to be just his "cut buddy"? If u can handle that emotionally, then stay with him. If u can't then toss him. I do think that u should continue to stand ur ground, because u never know how his feelings for u will develop if he knows ur a woman who won't be swayed by just anybody. Talk to him. When u ask him about what he said to ur best friend, maybe she should be there. Above all be safe and protect urself if u do decide to have sex with him.
2006-06-06 03:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by gzmom 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it might desire to be a habit that she has, yet while she attempts to touch your arm, or each and every now and then provides you a "love faucet" then she's somewhat fascinated. You bypass boy! Ask her if she desires to attraction to close out sometime (what would desire to it harm?) stable luck.
2016-11-14 07:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh.. that's kind of confusing do you want to be his g/f? if so ask him if he wants to even though he said he doesn't to your friend. if so you still like him right? if so just keep giving him the benefits maybe he'll start to want to be your b/f. that's all i have hope i helped
2006-06-06 03:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by mdwillridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slowdown. did your friend tell you this information about your boyfriend???????? if so, it could be that maybe shes trying to break you two up. she maynbe interested in him for herself. I would go and talk to your boyfriend about the situation. don't accuse him of anything just ask him outright if he said this. good luck
2006-06-06 03:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by just m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋