I met this great girl the restaurant and we connected. I was talking to her for three hours and I had to leave because my friend worked the next day. She did not have a boyfriend so I got her number and vice versa. I called a couple days later and she never returned her call. Now I'm thinking, I just wasted my time when she could just have been blunt with me. Women, can never understand them. I called twice so I'm not going keep calling her but it makes me think.
2006-06-06 02:21:10 · 7 answers · asked by Lae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just answered one of your newer questions but I'll help you here as well. The first time you call a woman and she doesn't answer (usually the case) you leave a brief message and that's it. The next day you call again and if nobody picks up here's what you do... you say this exact phrase to her "Playing hard to get already? I'm not much for games. If you'd like to chat you know where to reach me." This is something they have probably NEVER experienced before. You come off as a man who could take her or leave her. Never call constantly because you seem desperate and needy. Keep that in mind as well.
I'll give you a small example of me using this exact same tactic. I found a nice girl off of a personals site and after getting her number I gave her a call a day later. I didn't get a response so I left a brief message telling her I usually wake up around 6:30 PM (I'm a night shifter, but note this time) and to give me a call back. The next day I called her again and did NOT leave a message. Instead I hopped onto the internet and sent her an email saying exactly what I told you previously. The very next day at 6:30 PM she called me back, right on the dot. The key is to tell them that you're not going to take any of their crap and that you have better things to do than waste your time with petty games. Just watch the responses you get.
2006-06-07 04:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man u just don't get it do u it's all a game man u handed over control 2 her when u called her up waz it 2 or 3 times u shoulda stayed calm after ur 1st call if she really digs u she'd call back don't get all mushy or she'd think u're just another insecure loser and she'd scram fast...bid ur time
2006-06-06 02:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by gbedu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude never EVER approach a lady coz if you do the lady will NEVER respect you. Be a man and if a lady approaches u or is interested in u then only show interest and talk to her.
And if she is bitching around. F*** her!!! Why do u give her a damn. And try not to fall in love .. else u will waste even more time! trust me
2006-06-06 02:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by syd_guy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You didnt waste your time, you learned something. It was an experience and just let it go. There is someone out there for you and it wasnt her.
Men and women play games!
2006-06-06 02:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by jensmith24040 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Life's a big game man keep your sanity and you win.
2006-06-06 03:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by messedupsingledad 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe something came up, wait for her to call you.
2006-06-06 02:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
do you think shes tht cheap?keep trying
2006-06-06 02:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by rubzebred 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋