2006-06-06 01:24:04 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy, its because although you both are not together anymore you 2 still might have strong feelings for eachother, although you have went your seprate ways for certain reasons
2006-06-06 01:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Master Hoyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's hard because when you break up someone's feelings get hurt. It's just like in 1st grade when someone did something bad and you would say "I'm not your friend any more." If you really want to be friends with your ex then you should put the past behind and move along. im pretty smart for a 13 year old huh?
2006-06-19 18:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sora★ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just hard because no matter what you still had a relationship with that person and there will always be feelings there even if you want them or not. I just got out of a 4year relationship and my ex b/f. He told me he could never be friends with me. And that's understandable, plus the fact of seeing that person with someone new always hurts no matter who you are. Your human it happens. It's a hard thing and people would like to be friends only some can really do it most can't it's just how it is. I broke-up with my ex but if I still saw him all the time with someone else it would hurt me so much even though I was the one who did the dumping.
2006-06-18 11:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends...
if this person is not good 2u /why b friends?Cause he is a bad influence...
if he is good but u dont want nothing with him/but still he wants u and u already have someone new why talk to him? If ur still in love w/him and he move on why b friends???and if ur no over him and u both have a sex thing in common, more of a reason 2 not talk 2him, and or pretend 2b friends cause ull end up in bed with him........
so is hard when u still have feelings/and is not an issue when u guys are over but is not fair for the other person in ur life...
With time exes becomes friends you can count on.....but recent break up exes, should stay away.
2006-06-19 14:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by know it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that it can be hard for you to be a friend with your ex, is if you are still holding a grudge for what ever caused the two of you to split, or if you still have strong feelings for this person! If you are still having feelings for this person, then you should just accept the fact that the two of you will not be together as a couple, but you will always remain friends! That doesn't mean that you have to be close friends, you can just be acquaintances!!!
2006-06-19 03:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by bigred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard because you still share a special bond of something that was more then a friendship. you will always remember the good times that you had, the love that you shared and the memories that was made. you have a history with that person. some people carry a tourch many years after a break up. its better to love and lost then to not loved at all. and remember if you love something set it free. if it comes back it was meant to be..
2006-06-19 09:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by tx_lady_806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried it--it doesn't work. It's because even though you try to think of him/her as a friend, the fact of the matter is, you were once intimate with this person. After that, it is hard to have another relationship, and still be "friendly" with the ex.
2006-06-19 18:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we usually have deep feelings for that person and cant let go of what had brought us together in the first place,people usually break up because something bad happened in the relationship and that is why they arent together anymore and also it just isnt the same after a break up either,there are alot of resentments usually and blaming the other person for what happened to begin with,but wouldnt it be nice if all people could remain friends after a break up then we could start all over again?
2006-06-06 01:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to be friends with my ex but its easy for one person to be led on thinking there is the possibility of a make up and that may not be the case!!
i think its easier to move on without being friends with your ex!!
2006-06-20 00:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by cassandra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is that u guys have had special times together and being 2gether just brings those times back. thats how it was with my ex. but with some time we became friends again and now we r even closer than when we were bf and gf. like i say relationships last 4 a while but friendships can last a lifetime.
2006-06-19 10:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ale 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because most of the time a break up is not agreed upon. its usually one person breakin up with the other. so there are hard feelings on one part and maybe one or both of yall still have feelings for each other. and its hard to be around that person knowing you are no longer together.
2006-06-19 11:40:16 · answer #11 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋