Feeling bad:(?

Question

I don`t know it`s been so many things.I hate my mother she is never there 4 me ...she only knows how to yell at me & tell me what I`ve done wrong......my friends don`t care about enything than boys.I`m kind of failling at school.Please help

Answer 1

well...i can understand wat you are going through....the only thing i cud suggest you is that try talking to your mum about how u feel,tell her that u love her and u need her to be with u at times..u alsoo feel to be affectionately hugged by her!
about ur friends i will say that may be u r not in a good company...try making more new "good" friends...and pls...concetrate on ur studies i know its not eay after going through alll this...but trust if u try hard and do well in ur studies,participate in classworks may be u will become popular in ur class ur mum will also feel happy...and most of all u will benefit from it....u will become a succesful person..don't let all this stress affect ur studies...
i know wat loss mental stress can cause to ur academic life...
and always try to find something +ve in watever bad thing...
this will help u to feel good..an will also divert ur mind from -ve aspects of life...
don't worry and cheer up....
keep smiling
__Le Gra__
......Sne.......

Answer 2

Take a minute and think about all the things you like about yourself. For example I have a good sense of humor, I am patient and understanding with others,I like to read and listen to music. I'm sure you have qualities in yourself that you are happy with. In life a person has to like themselves. Is your mom a good mother other than the yelling?Does she love you?People usually care about the people they love however not everyone is able to express their feelings in the same way.If your mother didn't care she would let you do whatever you wanted. Whatever else happens in your life stay in school. Even if you are failing do not give up on yourself. So what if it takes a little longer to graduate. If you drop out you would still be a year older and no future.You are too young to just give up.Love yourself enough to be the best you can be.Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Okay, one situation at a time.

You might want to talk to your mom and tell her how you are feeling. Tell her that you need her to be supportive rather than cutting you down.

If your friends are not there for you right now, it might be because they are going through a phase with boys. Hopefully they have been there for you before and it will pass. IF not maybe you need to get out there and make some new friend.

Failing school can be cured by getting a tutor if you are studying and just do not seem to get the material. Otherwise, maybe you need to put some more effort into school. Set aside times to study and times to have fun. Maybe that will help you focus if you know that you have to study.

Don't worry about feeling bad, it happens to almost everyone at some time in their lives. Just do not let it escalate to depression, stay cool. Try not to stress too much. Good luck.

Answer 4

You know, you sound like me when I was in high school. I didn't get along with my mom, still don't. My friends were the same and got attention because they were pretty. As a result, I became depressed and struggled in school. But then I thought, who cares? I do. I forgot about mom and my friends, I finished school, went to work and found a whole new set of friends. It's amazing what a positive attitude does to your appearance too. When I go out with my friends now, It's me who gets the attention. Smile! Don't leave home without it!

Answer 5

first of all, sorry that you feel this bad...and are failing in school.To tell you the truth, it is difficult to answer your question, because we don't know the reason why your mom is yelling at you.Maybe your mom has some problems and can't talk to you about it.The only advice i can give you is try to think positive, i know it won't be easy...but if you change already by yourself and think more positive all the badness will not more be such a big problem..Also try to talk to your mom,in a calm way, you'll be surprised that she listens to you.Good luck anyway.

Answer 6

just take some time out and breathe i have the same problem but it helps me if i just relaxe mabey do some yoga or something calming you like to do. and anougther thing i do is i love calming words like breathe and calm and i put words like that everywhere i hang posters up in my room that have calm words and i have it on my screen saver and sometimes i wright it on a peace of paper and put it in my poket and when i feel it in my poket i take it out and read it and it reminds me to be calm.

Answer 7

I wish I could help. I've seen too much of this in my years.

Answer 8

talk to here, and remember no hatter how bad things r only you can make your self feel good. good luck