Plz help me.. me and my husband just found out we're pregnant .. and are both very happy about it but we are living with my mother-in-law.. to help take care of her. because my father-in-law fell and broke his hip so now he is in the nursing home and his mom says there isnt enough room and is stressed out and saying she cant go on any more .. what am i to do im starting to get stressed out because she said she may move to AZ .... Plz IM me i need someone to talk to.
2006-06-06 00:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by babycuddles662002 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yes she knows im pregnant and she wont go to the nursing home with her husband . i really dont want her to my mom is in FL and this is my first baby i wanted her to be here for me. i now see and feel like im doing this by my self well with my husband.. i dont know how far along i am im trying to get on medicaid right now because im not working and the hubby is the only one workin
2006-06-06 00:47:59 · update #1
first don't stress your self. I can speak from experience stress is very very bad while your pregnant. His mother should be blessed to have a grand child. I want to tell you congrats. I moved back in with my grandmother about 3 1/2 years ago to take care of her because she was sick. At the time I only had my oldest daughter. Then I got pregnant with my send daughter and she had a fit at first . But then she realized that by me living in her home she got a lot more opportunity to see her great grand daughters. Now i have 3 and sometimes it gets to her because she is 81 but she always tells me she would not have it any other way.
2006-06-06 03:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer.frye 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When I got pregnant with my first child my mother in law wasn't to happy about it either. But this is a wonderful time for you and your husband sit back and relax enjoy getting fat and bonding with your unborn child it is the most amazing thing in life for a woman to experience. You will do just fine if you can't get Medicaid some doctors will accept payments. So will Hospitals.
Just don't stress out about everything just remember that the baby feels what you feel.
2006-06-06 01:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you want to do is stop stressing, it is not good for you or the baby. Secondly find out if there is any way your mother-in-law can be with her husband, she is only missing him and is feeling very lonely right now. Finally don't worry with the things which we have no control. You are in a wonderful time in your life starting a family of your own, somethings are just out of our hands. Now relax and enjoy your family enjoy the process of starting a new life.
2006-06-06 00:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww! Honey you are old enough to figure out what you want to do! Don't let anyone make your mind up for you or make you feel obligated! Send that old bag to the nursing home! "Baby's are a blessing" that what my dad told be senior year of high school when i found out i was pregnant. If i was taking care of my mother inlaw she would be the first out the door! You'll be okay... Being pregnant is the most amazing thing you'll ever experience and if your ready, do it!
2006-06-06 02:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Fred M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your mother in law know that you are pregnant? if she does that is something wonderful to look forward to, maybe that will lift her spirits! Just be open with her and tell her how you are feeling, you really don't need to be under that kind of stress being this early in your pregnancy. There is a chance your mother in law could use some counseling.
2006-06-06 00:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by AMY P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, she's a big girl and can do what she wants. Your a big girl and can do as you want. Who gives her the right to tell you when you can and can't have a baby. I think she can take care of herself if she is so ungrateful. You could stick her in a nursing home.
2006-06-06 00:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put her with her husband and you to get out of that house and get a new house/apartment and enjoy this
how far along are u?
2006-06-06 00:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by xplaygirlx206 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋