Please dont say get married! I mean so I dont look back and say I wish I ......
Is there anything you did you are glad you did or something you wish you had done looking back?
2006-06-06 00:15:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
sing, dance, eat well, party, enjoy, dont stress, make sure it is all organised so that no hiccups on the day, wear the best dress you possibly can have, the best makeup and hair style, the wow factor! this is your day and moment.....make it a blast.
2006-06-06 00:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by smart_babe 3 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Make sure u are smiling the whole day, even if things dont go Perfectly! u will have the photographer following u around, and u want good memories! dont drink more than a couple of glasses of wine or champagne. Make sure u make it a point to visit all of the tables at least once, so u dont feel like u missed any of the guests, cause u could feel bad about this later. have a great time and remember the true meaning of the day: it is a celebration of your love, and the start of your new life as part of a married couple. congrats!
2006-06-06 03:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by pinkcat613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing that I would have to say is have a personal attendant. Have that person be the go to person for any vendor that has any questions. have it be a person that you trust and respect their decisions. Mine was absolutely awesome. I didn't know that there was a problem at the Hotel with the air until 3 days later because she was on top of things and she was able to deal with it instead of me having to worry about. Also I am sure everybody will tell you this but the day will ZOOM by! we went to the ceremony site before people were suppose to be setting up and My husband and I looked at our cake and relaxed for a few minutes then we met back up with the wedding party and went and took pictures. Remember this day will only happen once so enjoy it!
2006-06-06 08:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You jhave to make sure you and your hubby get some alone time during the day, just the 2 of you, take a walk around the grounds or something, so you can both take time out to see each other. Sounds strange but you could go the whole day without speaking to each other! Have a fun day
2006-06-06 00:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Secret Squirrel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ENJOY!! remember what the day is about, you will regret not enjoying the moment more than if the flowers were wilty!! :)
i wish i would of had a dj. it was an outside wedding so i thought it would be ok to have family/friends doing the music, and that part was, but we had no one telling us what to do next and announcing it, just got kinda confused
2006-06-06 19:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by bef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy urself dance and pray to God 4 making u see the day u will never forget for good cos it's a day many singles and youth look up to. be in love promise ur self that u will be obedient to ur man and would not allow another man into ur life,because it is an institution where u get ur certificate on the day of resumption. people expects u to do what u haven't learnt . after ur day take a walk and enjoy ur honeymoon
2006-06-06 02:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by Taichi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you will be glad you did is to pray, Thank God for the wonderful day like this to get married and ask Him to take control over everything. I tell you, you will be the happiest women!
2006-06-06 02:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by boselydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats!!!
The best thing you could do ( if within your budget) is to have a wedding/event planner. Organization is a key factor.She/he will make sure every last detail is covered and checked.I wish I had hired one.If it is not with in your budget I would purchase a 3 ring binder, package of dividers (12),lined paper, index cards and a plastic recipe box.
The binder will become your "Planner"- to set up you need a section for:
1-Church/Music-contract (if any)
2-Guest List/ Responces and Seating Chart
3-Bride-all info. on your dress, shoes,hair, jewlery,perfume,make-up etc.-contract
4-Bridesmaides- girls dress sizes, dress choice & same info as bride.-contract
5-Florist-church/reception/bride/entire bridal party/mother of bride&groom, isle runner-contract
6-Reception-location,payments,menu-contract
7-Favors - contract
8-Entertainment-song list, do not play list,-contract
9-Limo Service- type, pick up time, name of driver,addtional info- champagne iced etc- contract
10-Photographer-contract
11-Honeymoon-hotel & plane reservations-car service if needed
12-Cake- if not included in reception pakage
The recipe box is a condenced version of you book- keep in the car, office etc. Make sure the info. is updated to coinside with your book.of course you can not keep contracts in box- so this is for referance use only.
Be sure to include phone numbers where vendors can be reached after hours in case of emergency.Keep all contract with you at all times- including the day of your wedding-Ask a friend to be in charge of your book. Just in case there are any questions- he/she will have the info. with them and you can relax and enjoy the day.
As someone posted prior to me"don't sweat the small stuff" .
Enjoy your day...the begining of your new begining :)
2006-06-06 03:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by just-me-asking-u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do personalized vows. I think it really means a lot to the both of you. We actually wrote our vows together and printed them in our programs so that way they would know what we said in case they couldn't hear us. We are getting married next Saturday. Another thing we did, we got the congregation invovled by them saying that they would support us in our marriage.
2006-06-06 04:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush anything. Slow down and enjoy yourself. Don't get drunk nothing is more tacky than a drunk bride. You want to remember the day. You've spend a lot of time planning and money making it special don't ruin it by passing out and embarrassing yourself.
2006-06-06 06:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by JeniD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Relax! Maybe get a mani/pedi or go to a spa that morning. Enjoy your day!
2006-06-06 06:18:14 · answer #11 · answered by heidibel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋