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my love left me forever today i dont a ray of hope now .. he will never come back to me he dont love me .. why it happen to me i dont want this life
2006-06-05 23:36:46 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
yesterday he send me a message that i dont want anymore in his life .. he said me to dont contact him again and now i decided to forget him forever ... he just broken my heart because i love him and i shown him how much i need him in my life ... nobody cares for true love .. this world teaches me this thing that true love is awarded with betrayal
2006-06-07 18:58:58 · update #1
Please learn to love yourself! By loving yourself you'll learn to develop the basics of self-care. You may need help in learning how to love yourself. Contact your local Community Mental and Behavioral Health Center, and inform the receptionist what you are experiencing and how you feel. They'll schedule an appointment for you to meet, and visit with a professional about your difficulties.
I care about you!!!
2006-06-19 04:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Everand 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
My daughter went through the same thing. She tought she would never love anyone else and there was nothing to live for. I remember telling her through her tears that one day she will look back on this and realize there is life after a breakup. True love knows no hurt, and if he really loved you, he would not have left you. Truth always hurts, you loved him but he did not return that love. I know you don't think so now, but the world goes on and there is someone out there just for you. Give it some time before you think of dating again. Take your time to make the right decisions. Everything takes time and it takes time to heal from a borken heart. Hang in there, God has a special man for you. It just wasn't the one you had. God Bless you, I'll be praying for you.
2006-06-18 08:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Memere RN/BA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a valid reason as to why certain things happen to us in such a way. Most of the times when it happens we would not be happy and content with it but eventually one day in the near future we would realise that what happened what the best thing that could ever happen to us. It is the same in your case, the guy left you, you are very sad and down but you would realise that it's all for your own good. Maybe he is not the person who is destined for you and you deserve someone better. So try to keep yourself occupied and busy always. I understand that it is easier said then done but you have to accept what happened and start your life with a new prespective. Realise that this is just a small chapter in your live. Forget it and start fresh. Your life is precious and you wouldn't want to waste it by doing something silly just for a guy who left you. Have faith in yourself and in God, you will get throught this temporary difficult period.
2006-06-06 00:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by cautious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will hurt sweety and hurt for awhile but remeber that you are a strong person and I have found that nothing burns a man more if you just act like everything is ok and go on with life as normal of course for a whlie it will be a front but soon enough it will be you again and you will have your life back (before him) and there are so many good men out in the world and you will get one just stay strong very STRONG and push through this
2006-06-16 18:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by jdhoggiebuns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please i know this seems traumatic to you, witch is why i preach to you girls about having some self respect for your own sake. Most men will love you and leave you. when you are young you should get your self interested in other things and leave the boyfriend thing aside, until you know what you are doing, and advanced in school, as they will not take care of you after they decide the grass is greener on the other side. NO MAN IS WORTH WANTING TO DIE FOR!!!!!!!! PICK YOURSELF UP AND START OVER AGAIN, ONLY WITH A LARGER BRAIN, TRY NOT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE, I SAY YOU CAN MEET A THOUSAND +GUYS, AND STILL NOT FIND THE RIGHT ONE!!!!
2006-06-19 14:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by zuriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dying would only cause more misery for all who love you. Just remember that YOU were TOO GOOD for HIM. If he couldn't see you for the wonderful, amazing person you are, he deserves to not be with you. The perfect person for you is out there and will find you! I promise. I was in your place about 12 years ago and now I have been happily married for 3 1/2 years.
2006-06-19 08:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by spacebeans2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once said that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If you die now, you will never experience the joys the rest of your life is destined to hold.
I remember my first real love and how it felt when he left me. I cried for three months! But if I had given myself over to the heartbreak, I never would have known the wonderful man who has been in my life for the last 4 years.
Go ahead and cry. . .grieve. . .let it all out. Next week, it will hurt a little less, and a little less the week after that.
May God bless you and comfort you.
2006-06-17 16:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T EVER COUNT ON PEOPLE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY! If you do, then you will constantly be disappointed throughout your life because they will most often fall short of the expectations you have placed on them. Instead, learn to count on yourself for your happiness, or God if you're a believer. You can't make people love you or feel a certain way about you. Everyone won't like you, everyone won't respect you, everyone won't see how beautiful you are - and that's cool. You'll have to come to terms with that a lot in life. Just believe that you are So Worth It because I'm sure you are, even though everyone won't realize it due to their own stupidity.
Jade
2006-06-19 10:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to learn a lesson from him ! Keep yourself busy not thinking of him all the time! Life is a long way, soon you will recover from this illness ! You will get another lover sometimes and for sure you will forget all this ! Be stable and don't shake, control your feelings! Don't show back your love to him, be smart ! Mix up with your close friends and be happy !
2006-06-16 23:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't look at your Q&A page, but did look at your profile page where it says about you 'i want share smiles' Well just how do you expect to do that when you are dead? What smiles would your death bring to your family/friends? Think how THEY would feel if they lost you. Everyone goes through a period in their life where things don't go as they would like it to go, but life is ever changing. This time next year / month things may be different or you could look on things in a different way.
2006-06-05 23:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad that you found out now. I wasted 30 years on a man that loved one person and that was himself, he liked to make me feel like my wants and needs weren't important only his. You can't do a thing about yesterday only today and tomorrow remember that you are special and deserve much better than you were getting. And one day there will be another that will care about you as much as you do them. We can never make another feel the way that we want them too.
2006-06-17 21:11:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋