In a day I feel like talking to my man often cause we dont see each other everyday and I am not sure how often lovers should see each other when they are both in employment. Is my feel wrong that I whenever I feel I miss him then I should call him and talk to him on the phone? I dont want to end up irritating him though he appreciates each call I make and also wants to us to stay longer on the line. I hope he does not pretend.
2006-06-05 23:23:13 · 9 answers · asked by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Initially it will be .like that.Later on you will be used to it
2006-06-05 23:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how u feel! I used to call my man all the time, he got so fed up that he stopped answering or just cut me off!! So i stopped calling so often...and its better for both of us. It takes a while to have the self control to stop urself from doing it!! It also means that occasionally he has to make the effort and call me aswell!! When they start to make the effort u know that uve got them right where u want them! its a control thing...
Except your man says he likes it...which is always nice! maybe u shld slowly reduce the amount of times u call him, so that he doesnt notice too much. because if ur calling him all the time it makes u feel a little desperate, and like the relationship is one sided. But if u reduce the calls, then he will call u more, which will put a big smile on ur face!!
2006-06-06 07:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by tigger3003uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are lovers but not seeing each other every day, so presumably, you do not live together. I suggest you test his loyalty/love by finding an excuse to not have sex when you get together. If he returns to you sooner than normal then you will know it's the sex he is interested in rather than the pleasure of just being in your company.
I suggest this because it is too easy for men to think they can keep a girl 'sweet' by chatting on the phone but not making an effort to actually be with you. If he truly loves you then he will be driven, emotionally, to your side. It sounds to me like he has his cake and is eating it too.
2006-06-06 06:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Autumn Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not pretending but he could get the sack so you need to cool down a bit or it will all burn out. Texting is better. one or two a day max. i don't see my guy everyday but we text or phone once but sometimes we give it a miss if we're busy. You sound really insecure and I've been there too but you will feel more secure if you leave it to him to chase you, even if you have to wait a couple of days, do it and I promise he'll want you even more.
2006-06-06 17:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to miss him .. but for your future wellfare you'd better not call on too much .. you may agree on a specific time of the day to have a lengthy call .. so that you won't cause either of you problems at work .. ofcourse you can surprise him with a special call at a different timing now and then to brighten his day
2006-06-06 06:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with missing him... ;)
And there are ways of getting some fun in there... If you work in the same locale... Then meet up for lunch... ;) And find a nice quiet place to have some fun... Or at a restaurant and tease each other...
Failing that... Go to the bathroom and text him with your dirty thoughts... Or take pictures of yourself playing and send them on to him... ;)
2006-06-06 06:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep up the personal phone calls at work you will both be fired and then you can spend all day unemployed together.
2006-06-06 06:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong,but just improve on the frequency of seeing each other.
2006-06-06 06:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NICE TO BE CALLING. BUT KEEPING LIKE THAT FOR LONG MAY PUT U IN DIFFICULTY.
2006-06-06 06:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by sures 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋