2006-06-05 23:12:59 · 21 answers · asked by tigger3003uk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm...mixed response there then! The trouble is he one of those men that never talk about feelings. I am still totally in love with him after the 3 yrs that weve been 2getha, but how do i know if he feels the same?! His parents were divorced, so he has been brought up with the view that no-one will stay 2getha forever, whereas my family is the opposite!! HELP!
2006-06-06 00:04:08 · update #1
You will no doubt get countless e-mails from insecure women saying no and that all men are pigs but let me tell you something......
I am a man aged 27 with a fiancee and a two (nearly 3) year old son. I have been with her for nearly eight years now, we own our own house, cars dog etc. and not only is she the first person i ever slept with but she is my first and only girlfriend. I love her very very much and would do nothing to jeopardise what we have, while I can not speak for 'men' I can speak for myself and say that I could honestly not imagine being with, let alone sleeping with another woman - ever. I think most women have trust issues influenced by mediums such as soap operas and chat shows and look behind there backs far too much often for things that just aren't there. I think if all women were tottally mongomous then men would have to be too, therefore the question should be simply if monogomy is possible at all and in answer to that I have to say simply :
With the right person yes it is, but monogomy is so much more than just sleeping with one person- it is about putting one woman above ALL others.
2006-06-05 23:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by ligiersaredevilspawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. I've only ever slept with 2 girls- the second of which i'm marrying next month. I don't worry about what other girls would be like because if either of us fancy trying something new we just ask. I wanted to experience being dominated by a girl so i asked her and she was more than happy to oblige. As long as you both talk and keep things fresh ans spicy there shouldn't ever be a reason for him to want to try anyone else.
2006-06-06 10:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by mike m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Give them some credit. Not all men are the same as the lying cheating scumbags who give the rest of them a bad reputation.
2006-06-06 06:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, totally!!! If he loves you there shouldn't be a question. Trust him unless he gives you a reason not to. If he does stray get rid of him- he's not worth it!!!
2006-06-06 06:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by gen.taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy!!!!
If you find the right guy for you and he feels exactly the same about you then i think its possible yeah
2006-06-06 06:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by kuyfouyfo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because his family's divorced don't mean all marriages fail. be thank full his monogamous that's ware the trust lays now days.
2006-06-12 10:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some yes, most no...
I'm not... But I know some who are...
But, if it gets to the point where he starts to wonder about other women, give him a chance to sample... Maybe even a 3some, if you are up for it...
2006-06-06 06:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really loves u . He must be true as most imp part of love is faith
2006-06-06 06:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by pstarstarstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to make sure he doesn't wonder about whether he'd get it better somewhere else - make sure he thinks you're the best!
(And keeping him worn-out will help! :-)
2006-06-06 06:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Nefeco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi u are lucky he has only slept with u. i am guy also n wen we do that we mean it. we truely love u. n it's up2 the gals who shud trust us. don't let him go
2006-06-06 06:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mitesh P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋