we had some problems, i tried working our relationship but he didnt help saying he didnt trust me anymore and that he's not got feelings for anymore and he wont tell me we should break up, he doesnt call me and anytime i call him he acts like he doesnt want to talk, he's always cold to me, well, i was forgetting all about him until one day he called me and said since i want the relationship back he will try and help us work things out.
said he was going to start calling me and visiting frequently, but he's doing the opposite. he doesnt call nor visit frequently like he said and when i call he tells me he's busy, meanwhile he doesnt do anything to keep him busy. can u believe he has even travelled to UK without telling me, i have decided to give up on him since he's not helping or making our relationship work, he's making a fool out of me but what hurts me is that, he used to love me and i loved him, i still love him and i cant forget about him, what do u think, please help me out.
2006-06-05 22:55:30 · 17 answers · asked by SeXyBaBe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing worse than a guy who plays mind games is the girl that LETS him. Get a clue, get rid of him and move on. If you go back to him than you deserve him and shouldn't be complaining.
2006-06-05 23:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by wldntulike_2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would let him know that he is not treating you right and it's about time the games stopped and you called it a day. If you end it, it will be a lot easier for you to move on. He obviously doesn't care enough about you to really want to get back together.
Love is based a lot on trust. Once the trust starts to crumble, things just aren't the same again. You should start thinking about being a free agent again for a while. Take a deep breath and blow him out of your life.
2006-06-12 03:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 06:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U had predict right dear ur boyfriend is really playing game... He dosnt like u but when u dont call him he gets the instinct of missing u... that is not love. He expects something more from u (May be money, studies, status, or even body structure). If u find it try to refine urselves otherwise leave him... If a person really loves one he wont expect him/her to change. If he expects then he is not in love.
always try to find what he expects from u now...
Take perfect decisions. God is with U.
2006-06-05 23:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♥sabari♥jpradha♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have to give this guy credit he has you and his freedom.He tells you waht you want to hear and you fall for it he knows you too well and is playing with that but you already know that.He used to love you but you are still hang on him?Come on he is showing you what he really is ........Do you still want to wait around is the Question you ask your self and when you find the answere you either move forward or get sucked in the past with a********boyfriend
2006-06-05 23:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell u
if u love him u must leave him for a while and belive me he will wonder abt u not callin him or seein him
he will try to look for u again but he must find u with another guy doing watever even if u r studin he will think it some way else so he will get on fire
if he loves u
and if he don't move then belive me u worth more than him
2006-06-05 23:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by wtr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's harder to bring a man back to relationship than a woman. Especially if he has tasted the forbidden fruit somewhere else. Live on baby. Ignore him, he will come back. Now you dictate the rules
2006-06-05 23:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soundz like he been playing u, he was putting all the blame on u gurl(i dont trust you) dats cos he knows he was doing u wrong and in order to keep the fault off him he put i on u, and wen he rang u saying he'll try and work things out i bet dat was wen his fling or wotever dumped him and he needed sum one so he ran bak to, my guess is he cant feel alone, he acts like hes still wit u but hes not he knows u love him so he know u gonna take him bak if all else fails, gurl u deserve to be loved by sum1 willing to love, and be in love with you respect you comfort you and be ther for you in times of need and it dont sound like he giving you any of that, and dont say but he used to, cos right now he aint the lights gone out and its sad to hear that but u just gotta admit dat to urself then go enjoy life then wen the right mann comes along you will know.
2006-06-05 23:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know some ppl dont like to be told this but i think you should move on i mean really if he really loves you he wouldnt put you through the pain that your goin through... i dont know maybe he doesnt wanna be in a relationship right but if i were you i would just move on i know it would be hard for you but sometimes you got to do things you dont wanna do... so i mean just go out and have a good time find you someone else and move on and then later he will realize wat a huge mistake he made by makin you wait on him and goin through pain...
2006-06-05 23:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by hesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It is quite natural. Hw wants to avoid you for reasons not within his reach to satisfy you. Why can't you also reciprocate in teh same coins?
2006-06-05 23:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋