i'm the one with the boyfriend who never gets jealous. i do get jealous on rare occasions and open about it with my boyfriend but what if one day i turn the tables around and pretend i don't get jealous at all? would he notice? would it alarm him?
guys, what do you think if your girl NEVER gets jealous?
2006-06-05 22:13:50 · 7 answers · asked by katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, i know it's hard to find a girl who is TRULY not jealous and not just pretending to be not jealous.
i'm asking this question for the sake of knowing men's thinking more. = )
2006-06-05 22:26:11 · update #1
I can relate to your boyfriend. I'm the same way. Although his thinking is probably different than mine, I simply look at it from 2 angles.
1. It's a trust issue. If I don't trust someone, I won't even date them.
2. I see a difference between love and sex. Trust has nothing to do with either one. Sex is a physical activity to me. Nothing more, nothing less. I see no conflict with having sex with someone you do not love simply for the pleasure in the activity.
I also believe that monogamy is an out-dated philosophy that causes more harm than good. This is just my own observation. However, some of the happiest couples I know are free to engage in any activity they want with their partners blessing.
My happiest relationships have been that way as well.
It's amazing how liberating it is to know that no matter what you do, how you do it, or with whom, that the person you love, and who loves you will be there as a partner without any limitations on the relationship.
I would strongly suggest you get a book called "The Ethical S l u t". It's a nice little book on trust and polyamorous relationships. Even if thats not your bag, it may help you understand how petty jealosy really is.
Luck
-SD-
2006-06-05 22:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd love her not to be jealous of me and that would show how much she trusted me.
It would be comforting to know that i can be with other women, thou not sexually inclined and she wouldnt blow a fuse when she smelled sum1 elses perfume on me.
But, If i come home with lipstick on my colar and hickies on my neck, then i'd like to know she's offended, and wudnt mind a kick in the nutts....i'd deserve it!!!
2006-06-06 05:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by medhruv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i dont get jealous over my husband i know who he comes home 2 so if he looks or talks 2 another female more power 2 him
2006-06-06 05:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by tats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will feel kinda insecure about it. because if she doesnt get jealous, it seems like she doesnt really care for me. the relationship probably wouldnt last too long because i am too insecure, unless we have been together for 20 years...
2006-06-06 05:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by nice_snacks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealous should not exceed the limit.
If my girlfriend gets no jealous at all, it means she doesn't love much which make me crazy.
2006-06-06 05:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by fekri73110050 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are mythical beasts allowed to post question's ?
2006-06-06 05:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is a beautiful thing
2006-06-06 05:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋