My partner always brings up things about girls he has been with in the past. A few I know. I get really pissed of coz that is all in the past and I believe the same with my past. I know I could do the same things but I ain't like that. He knows how I feel about him bringing it up but still continues to do it. So guys tell me is it a ego thing and gals tell me should I return the past .
2006-06-05 22:06:17 · 8 answers · asked by TAJ2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start doing the same thing as him (bring up wonderful experiences with your ex) and see how he reacts. if badly, then tell him how you both can only mutually stop comparing. if not, then you have a problem - go back
2006-06-05 22:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that he must have low self esteem if he has to bring up his past lovers and add them as a topic in your current relationship. It shows and immense amount of disrespect to you and your feelings.
I wouldn't not accept this behaviour and I think you should be up front with your discomfort it. If he disregards your feelings and keeps on throwing those ex stories up in the air, then break up. It sounds harsh but you don't do yourself any service by allowing him to make you have to listen to this type of nonsense.
Relationships are about here and now and what future both you share together. The past is the past and it really shouldn't be brought up (ex's I mean) unless you ask or he asks. There is no need for it in a new relationship for it only brings hurt and insecurity.
Don't let this go unchecked for if you do, you will have to deal with this for the rest of your relationship.
2006-06-05 22:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will see how it is to be uselessly and hopelessly jealous. And you should tell him to stop with those stories because this harms your relationship. This has smth to do with his ego, of course, he is proud of his love past and wants you to be respectful. You might considfer taking it funny or either finding a new bf.
2006-06-05 22:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You arent sexuallly satisfying him!!!
Listen to what he says about the x's and try to improvise with new styles and different acts. Make him forget all his x's and make u his ultimate sex goddess and life tyme lover.
2006-06-05 22:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by medhruv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's hoping by telling you some of the things he will get you to try and out do them.. or maybe it's his way of trying to be close to you.. Opening up to you..
2006-06-05 22:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really annoys you and keeps doing it on purpose - I say get back at him with something that will shut his mouth once and forever
2006-06-05 22:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Ani♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about future
2006-06-05 22:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by victoryismine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus piss him off and seek an other guy. who can understand u well.
2006-06-05 22:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by sweety pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋