why do men think they're not good enough for me?

Question

it's not exactly flattering. it pisses me off. why do they think so? i'm not perfect. or is it just a crap to make me feel good because they don't want me anymore? why do men just content themselves by looking at me and talking to me. why can't they have the guts to really know me? my female friends told me i intimidate them. but i was not acting bi****. what do you think? i'm serious.

Answer 1

because they are not ready for a fly *** girl like you they lack confidence if your ever in houston maby we can chill

Answer 2

Many men in America feel totally disillusioned and demoralized regarding women. The truth is many men feel as though they have been emotionally and mentally stomped on enough. Whenever you see a girl in the States, you know from experience that there is some kind of game involved. I am an American man living in Bangkok, Thailand. I am a school teacher. Over here I can pick and choose among hundreds of very beautiful, educated and professional females. And you know what? I'm still messed up in the head over all the years of crap I went through with women in the States. I'm not joking! The damndest thing is I'm still single because I just can't pick one! They're all so beautiful and sexy. I went from living in America with few options, to living over here with too many options. Strange world isn't it ?? I'm curious about what you look like, figure and all. Not that I judge people on their physical bodies. But it does matter. Would you send me a pitcure of yourself? Mabye we could have some interesting conversation. Thank you, [e-mail] Mike

Answer 3

There is a lot of social pressure on men to be providers. Some guys have this high standard that they think they must live up to and when they don't, they use the phrase, "I'm not good enough for you." Or, "you can do so much better than me."

Answer 4

I have the same issue. Guys are intimidated by strong women who know what they want it has nothing to do with being witchy. If you know what you want, or where you are going, or are just generally honest, it can be intimidating to guys. As much as it sucks, if they think they aren't good enough for you, they probably aren't.

It seems like these guys feel like they can handle having a fabulous person, but it turns out they cant. Maybe because you know what you want, and they don't. Maybe it's because you are comfortable with yourself and they aren't. Either way generally guys are right about this. Even if they are great guys, they probably aren't good enough for you because you need someone who is confident enough to be with you. Also remember that men are generally emotionally incompetent.

Answer 5

Maybe you portray that aura of 'don't ask me out or I will reject your *** to the curb?' and the guys pick on this vibe? Maybe the guys thing your out of their reach because you are beautiful? I haven't got a clue because I haven't got a mental image of you to compare thoughts to.

Maybe a change of scene will be good for you so you can meet new guys who have that confidence to ask you out?

The reflection in the mirror is not the image seen by others.

Answer 6

i had the same problem for awhile.....just be yourself....when the right guy comes along he will loev and appriciate u for the princess that u r

Answer 7

its simple.....they think that they r better tham woman and think themselves over smart,but they dont know that without woman they r nothing.infact their mother is also a woman.they forgot it.

Answer 8

well who told u that things.
No, i like u so much even i dont know u
coz i love all the ppl:)

Answer 9

What do you look like?