I am 22 and the guy that i am dating is 30 i go to school online for my bachelors which is demanding. I am majoring in design and animation . anyway He works for some big compnay. I am working for a fast food resturant for the time being until i graduate. He does not want to accept where I work , he constantly throws what he has up in my face even though a female help him his job. I have tried to bring him up to date that he was lucky because he did not find his job on his own , all he has is an associates he says that i am kissing my jobs A** but i told him thatI am looking for something in my field; alot of doors will not be open in the world of design because it is to competitive. if he felt that way why did he call me? maybe just some a** ! he knew what my case was .He always throws in my face how he likes dating successful women and that i do not want anything for myself I told him I do if i didn't i would not be going to school what would you do i want to leave him alone
2006-06-05 21:37:34 · 11 answers · asked by soawake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what people like him don't understand is that there are sucessful people in business...then there are sucessful people in LIFE. this guy's priorities are so screwy it's not even funny. he sounds condescending and arrogant from what you've told us. even if you were unemployed, you wouldn't deserve being spoken to like that. i reckon it's a very honourable thing you're doing getting your degree, and working. congratulations. you know that you deserve better...it's your bad luck that you got stuck with his negativity..and it's his good luck that he had your attention for this long. move on, enjoy and don't waste time thinking about him.
2006-06-05 21:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by happy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember one thin, a job and your work is not everything, some of lifes best pleasures will pass you by just cause you were out there looking to find your goal at work. Do work hard but also play some. If you love your man...or think it could be something special....dont mess around and get your priroties right!
2006-06-06 04:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. i dont think you should give him a chance. he sounds like an ***.
if hes not accepting you for who you are.. even you working in a fast food place.. then he's not worth it.
no matter how hot he is.
if you want a suger daddy.. then thats another story.. lol
but you dont sound like that kinda girl.
if something were to happen between you.. he sounds like he may be very controlling.
i wouldnt give him a chance.
2006-06-06 04:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by twinstarr2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope you will move on and find somebody who respects you and what you do. That guy sounds like a pompous blowhard who likes to put down others in order to make himself feel like a big man. You can do much better! good luck
2006-06-06 04:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an immature jerk. I bet he's a control freak too. You are your own person. If he can't respect that, then he doesn't deserve you.
2006-06-06 04:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him! don't give him any other chances, he hurt you once so he will don't give a damn that he will hurt you again... your too good for him...there are more guys far better than him...his just some self centered egoistic male. life is short don't waste your time to that jerk! :D
2006-06-06 04:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by cmbr cutey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seam a bit upset - its hard to understand what you are actually trying to say.
if he doesn't acept you for who you are then leave. you can't be somebody else for him - it wouldn't work on the long run
2006-06-06 04:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone.
2006-06-06 04:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by miss*miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
2006-06-06 04:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by B.N.P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser...dont let hin make you a loser too.....
2006-06-06 04:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋