2006-06-05 21:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by andy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jesus, everyone is asking this question tonight. You can't make someone love you. Don't dwell on somone who you fancy when they do not like you. Acting needy and wanting to be with a girl who has little interest in you makes you LESS attractive to them. If you want to have any chance with a girl in a situation like this then you need to act like you don't give a sh*t about her. Go out with other women, go out with your friends, don't call her, don't ask her friends about her. its like everything in life man, we always want what we can't have.
2006-06-05 21:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude... you cant make anyone fall in love with you just like that.
show her that you care.
dont go out and say 'i love you' right off the bat..
send her a rose while shes at work.
show up at her house with her favorite take out food or ben and jerrys ice cream.
girls love to know that they are cared for.
offer her a back massage.
take her to the beach or a lake and splash water at eachother.
do fun stuff.. all the while finding out what she likes and dislikes.. that way you can never mess up.
good luck dude!!
2006-06-06 04:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by twinstarr2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Love is a choice. You have made yours, she must make hers. You cannot make it for her, any more than she can make your choice for you.
The only thing you can do is love her. Show her you love her, but don't smother her. If she doesn't feel the same way, move on. There are more fish in the sea.
2006-06-06 04:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start trying to pursue somebody else. You can not make somebody love you honestly no matter what you do. If your don't care if it's real love start giving her money, I bet she start loving you then.
2006-06-06 05:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Virgo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puppy love
true love is built over time, you have plenty of that - explore the horizons, seek new friends.
been there done that: it is not very exciting...
2006-06-06 04:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CANT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU THEY HAVE TO FALL IN LOVE FOR YOU AS A PERSON
2006-06-06 04:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make her love you,she has to want you...just b urself and if it's meant to b she will fall 4 u...good luck,luv ya
2006-06-06 04:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Albee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these kind of things cannot be forced..u mus leave it to faith to decide...if u 2 were meant to be toghther then u dun have to worry..eventually she will be comin to u!!
2006-06-06 04:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make her, believe me, you can't make anyone love you. they have to decide that for themselves.
2006-06-06 04:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. but if you feel that she's for you, go pray about it. prayer works.
2006-06-06 04:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by tragob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋