how do i make my older son feel loved and secure??? how do i deal with this situation?
2006-06-05 21:19:46 · 15 answers · asked by patricia a 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Others that answered are IDIOTS and probably don't have kids! or probably still kids themselves!
My kids are only 13mo apart!
OH IT"S GREAT!!!
Don't worry about it! your baby is going to be fine. By the time the new baby comes your other will be a little over a year and probably walking and wanting to help do stuff! Mine would always go get me diapers and throw the dirty ones away! She really felt important and always included! My daughter is 2 1/2 and my son is 1 1/2, and they are best friends! It;s going to be GREAT!
God Bless!
2006-06-05 21:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by bellaandbobby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to the ones on here that say you need birth control. It happens, A LOT, you're not the only one. My kids are 10 mo & 10 days apart. It was a lot of work when they were babies, but I wouldn't change it for the world. Your kids will love each other & will always have a playmate. And your son will feel loved & be secure.
2006-06-06 03:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer hear to human beings, they talk without questioning. while my son grew to become into 4 months previous I have been given pregnant with my now 11 month previous daughter and that i'm presently 6 months pregnant lower back. All my teenagers get interest and love and that i haven't had any jealousy problems they play severe high quality and love one yet another a lot. solid success and luxuriate in!
2016-09-28 03:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love your son he will barely be 1 year old he will adjust easily. Try to spend quality time with him rather than quantity after the baby is born. Get help from family and try to have 1 on 1 time with both your kids
2006-06-05 23:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a blunder by becoming pregnant and instead you should have taken precautions. Before second issue the first child should be at least four years old so that he will not depend much on you?Now you have to carry one on your body and another inside .What i feel is for your enjoyment you have totally ignored the future of your child. At least you should have planned for a delayed pregnancy in the interest of your child. If the law of your land allows you termination of pregnancy You should opt for taking care of your son.
2006-06-05 21:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by vijay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well congrats
dont listen to the jerks on here my son was 4 months yesterday and im thinking im prego again and im on birth control lol
if u have yahoo messenger id love to chat with him we might as well be in the same boat huh?
my sn is xplaygirlx206 and email is the same just with @yahoo.com
2006-06-06 00:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by xplaygirlx206 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to make sure that once the baby is born you still spend plenty of quality alone time with your son.
2006-06-05 21:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by bec 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck!!! but yes onething if u can afford any help afterwords go for it u will need it bcoz 2 kids to handle quite difficult..one will be new born and other is toddler.take care of your health which is more imp now..
2006-06-05 23:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by jinnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow r u a s** machine?? cool down buddy, ur kids will be fine hopefully but i'm concerned about the stress u'll go through.
good luck and watch urself
2006-06-05 23:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first tell me who told you to take such a rash decision,
you would have stoped your husband , but what to do now the damage is done, just consult some good doctor and take proper rest and just move acording to doctors advice dont use your first flore.
2006-06-05 21:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Abhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋