I have a b/f, best friends, a family, a job and everything...but at night all I can think about is how unhappy I am. I have thought about cutting, running away, and every other bad outcome. I have tried to talk to my boyfriend and my mom but no one seems to understand. Either they dont believe me or they just really arent listening. I dont know what to do... I feel so lost and by myself ALL the time. I could be at a party with everyone I know around and still I feel like I dont belong... can someone please help me...this is no joke... I need someone to listen to me and give me some good advise. PLEASE!!! HELP ME!!!
2006-06-05 20:27:20 · 10 answers · asked by lonely_purple_angel 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The only thing I can think of is maybe you have depression? If you're familly's not listening or if it doesn't feel like it at least, maybe talk to a psychiotrist.
Best I can offer. Good luck.
2006-06-05 20:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by thebewast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked the question - and answered it. This demonstrates a good mind. No one could take your words as a joke - why would they?
We've all been so lonely - that is, at times we have. We are all alone, but we are also all joined together - by something imperceptible at times.
I empathise because I too, even in the middle of a party or a close group, have felt so different, as if I'm the only one who ever felt like I do. Of course, I am right, and I am wrong.
It's easy to feel lonely at night - all alone, with one's thoughts, awake at night. I've had that. I've also felt such a strong connection at these times - to the world as a whole, to people who aren't there, even those who've passed on.
When I feel lonely like this, I visualise my favourite place, my favourite person, my favourite song, everything that makes me feel good and gives me comfort. You then realise that you are loved, and you can accept your feelings and go from there.
I hope you know my words are sincerely meant. You have a great life ahead of you.
Multiblue
2006-06-10 11:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by Multiblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel lonely many times. I stay in a hostel without a boyfriend, a friend or a mother.I do have friends but every one is involved in their own troubles so you cant expect any body to help you. So what I do is SMILE when I feel just like you have mentioned. It helps,listen to funky music and dont pity your self.Think you are the best in the world,look in the mirror an Praise your self, think of all the good thinks and good times you have had.
2006-06-06 03:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by hwa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I feel exactly the same ... but my situation is very different ... I AM totally alone, and I DON'T belong here...
Not an easy situation, that's for sure... you DO need to talk about it ... Make sure that your family and bf understand that you DO have a problem... Try to get professional help if you think it's necessary... Don't give up !! And don't do anytrhing stupid !!!!
Bon courage ;^)
2006-06-06 03:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like depression. You should definitely contact that other person who says she feels the same way (xiwei0108) plus since she is a woman too it might make it easier to relate. She might be able to help you. If that is not enough talk to a professional. But please no bad outcome. OK?
2006-06-06 03:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. It appears that you feel isolated and depressed. My advice to you is to seek professional personal counseling. It worries me that you have been thinking about harming yourself (cutting) because that is a serious symptom of an underlying mental health condition.
Since no one will listen to you..you need to take care of yourself here. It is good that you confided in this forum. Please know that you are a valuable important member of our society..and we need to to be ok. Please take care of yourself and get the help you need.
Much care to you.
2006-06-06 12:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hullo
that could be a state of anhedonia !which is a state of mild chronic depression usually went undiagnosed,or a state of borderline personality disorder.
i am ready to listen ,e mail me if you like at baghdadcatcash@yahoo.com
dr.solo
2006-06-06 05:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by baghdadcatcash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too feel lonely sometimes so when i feel lonely i listen to music so try listening to music
2006-06-06 03:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you consult with a psychiatrists. these people are bound to help you in this situation. don't develop stress or anxiety otherwise you will have more problems unnecessarily.
2006-06-06 04:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by nimesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have this problem .May be we can chat .My email address is xiwei.0108@yahoo.com
2006-06-06 03:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Seo yun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋