Have i finally lost it? serious answers only please...?

Question

As i stated in a previous question, i lost the only woman i have ever truly loved when i was 16. It was a bad car accident ( A truck with a drunk driver plowed into my coup...) and when i fall asleep without my sleep meds, i dream of that night and wake up screaming, shaking, and in a cold sweat. That's all that happened until recently, i will sometimes glance somewhere and see Michelle standing there smiling at me... and i will here her voice all the time, just whispers of her voice... The last one sounded like she was right behind me... My friends have said many things, that i am going crazy, that it's a ghost, and that she is an angel now and is watching over me... i need to know what is truly happening, all and any help is greatly appreciated...

Thank you so much...

it's been two years since that night...

Answer 1

The Bible says that the dead "sleep" and "know nothing" (are not consciously aware of anything) until the resurrections. Michelle is not aware of you right now.

The only two possibilities are that you are being disturbed by demonic forces posing as Michelle or that you are vividly imagining that you hear her.

Answer 2

I don't know much about psychology, but I'd say that a person who suspects he's "lost it" is usually sane enough. Those who have actually lost it are so lost that they don't even realise how lost they are. When you were 16 you lived an experience no 16-year-old should ever live. That MUST have affected. Only if you were crazy you would be able to go through that and not be affected by it.

Anyway, although you haven't "lost it", you do have an obvious and understandable problem there. I suggest, as other people have, that you see a psychologist. That'll help you a lot.

Answer 3

No you are not going crazy. Your mind was opened up to a lot of negative stuff through your emotions, and it will take some time to heal. The mind is an incredible thing and just like it can do some spectacular things(imagination) it can be programmed Negatively too!!! This negative programming cause's thought's and feeling's to flow through you when you really don't want it to at all. Time will help you heal and reprogramming it can really help. Seek professional help and always try to think positive, counter-act any negative thoughts with positive and remember this, you will eventually over-come this, and move on. Never ever give up, you will get better.

Answer 4

I think that her spirit will be with you always. The nightmares you are having are a post tramatic thing that you may need to see a pychiatrist to get meds. for--not that I think you are going crazy! The thing is that you are
showing symptoms of post traumatic stress disorder and some anti-anxiety meds. could do you a world of good.
I say this with concern as I know this can be a very difficult thing to overcome on your own.
You must try to go on with your life at some point.She
would want that for you.I know it is hard, but the effort to get on with your life is the key so put it in drive and step on the gas and don't look back.

Answer 5

She is watching over you. Believe it ... she still loves you and because she left this life so suddenly and tragically, she is finding it hard to go into the Spirit Realm. No big deal ... she's fine, not lost, she just wants to be around the most important person she had in her life. She loves you and doesn't mean to scare you ... just deal with it, and know that you do have a spirit entity watching over you (a "guardian" Angel if you will).

You are so lucky friend. Know this and be happy. Don't worry about your friends or skeptics in general ... enjoy life and know that someday ya'll will be re-united. And DON'T think she gets jealous seeing you around other women ... that's a damn lie. She's very content doing what she's doing.

Answer 6

You're obsessing. You're not crazy, but you need to get some closure. You can integrate Michelle into your life if you want or not, but you're obsessing about her too much right now. It also sounds like you might be blaming yourself for the accident, or surviving, or possibly something else. It's time to talk to a professional. Good luck.

Answer 7

There are a couple of explanations for this phenomena.

1. That she is trying to tell you to let go of what happened and move on.
2. That the guilt you feel for what happened that night is getting to you.

Either way, you need to realise that you did not kill her. It isn't your fault.

She would want you to be happy, and you can't be unless you accept that she's gone and you need to keep going.

Live your life for her. She will always be a part of you and a part of every day you are here. Make your life great and do it all for the memory of Michelle.

Answer 8

When you've loved and lost someone, you see her face in every crowd. Her voice comes to you before sleep and as you wake up. No, you're not crazy. You are a caring, loving human being who lost someone dear to his heart. She is in your heart and she will be there forever. Just wade through the grief. Your suffering is a sign that you are alive, compassionate, and sensitive.

When I was first separated from my wife, I'd feel her shaking me awake, "Come, it's time for supper." I'd wake up and there would be no one there. It was a devastating experience. This kind of suffering is part of the human experience. Value yourself. Know that you are grieving. Give yourself time to grieve and be gentle with yourself. Take care, my friend. Better and brighter days are ahead for you.

Answer 9

WHAT DID SHE SAY?

Take a notebook to bed with you and when you wake up make yourself write down your impressions. You must begin to do this work and reclaim your life. Most people do not have this problem, but some others have before and this small step will help you.

Answer 10

It's all in your head. It's a lot like the post traumatic stress war veterans go through. Talk with a professional that deals with this type of problem.