How should I go about doing this?

Question

I have a small problem.

I just met this girl, she's a year-younger than me (I'm 21).

She has a boyfriend. He's 22, a fourth-year in University but is from the Netherlands. He is there currently and will be coming down for her birthday at the end of June. He'll be heading back and then moving to Ottawa in September to finish his fourth-year and do an internship. They are getting a place together, with four or five other people.

She told me that she wouldn't have stayed with him had he not returned to Canada from the Netherlands.

When we're (her and I) with other people, she's kinda quiet and reserved with, what seems to be only me. However, when we're alone, like walking to my car or driving her home or on MSN, she's talkative and it seems like there is a connection.

She's beautiful. Smart. Funny, get's my sarcasm and wit, a great all-around person. I've got a huge crush on her.

What should I do?

Also-- I just met her like 4 days ago, lol!

Also -- all the people she's been hanging with (like during our softball games) just met her -- so it's not like they know a lot about the bf.

Answer 1

Maybe she is quiet and reserved with you around friends because she doesn't want anyone thinking she is being unloyal to her bf. If you feel there is a connection, and that by letting her know it won't ruin your friendship, then say something to her, if you don't let her know how you feel then you may never know what could have been. Maybe try something sly like, If only you didn't have a boyfriend, I think we would make a great couple. And see what she says and play off of it. Good luck.

Answer 2

you should let her know how you feel cause she might be waiting for you to make the first move.

Answer 3

Dude, she's taken.