What am I supposed to do?

Question

i love my friend so much. i think about her constantly and i feel i'll never find anyone else that makes me feel this way. i DO tell her all my feelings. i see her every time i close my eyes. i think of her any time i try to think. i hug my pillow every time i try to sleep. i see her every friday. we watch tv, play games, joke around and hug. we have everything in common. we seem like the perfect match. we don't even fight ever. i've been in love with her from the first time i seen her almost 5 years ago. i don't want to give up my feelings with her (even if it was possible). i just want her to think about me as a boyfriend and not just a friend.
i am stuck in the "friend zone" what can i do?
how can i show her that i could be "the one" for her?
how can i show her that i'll love her till the world stops turning and then some?
how can i be with her?

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going through the first 5 ansewrs

1) She told me she just wants to be friends.
2) i have told her.
3) so far i like your answer but whats "the ILY line"?
4) i heard it. i just don't understand it. i do realise i could lose her as a friend (that is my second worst fear. my worst fear is her getting hurt) but i can't stop wanting to get closer. i have tried to get into a relationship and i was hurt horibly through it. i ment play video games. with the name "lover" i assume you think i am after sex. i don't care about that. i just want to be able to hold her and not have her feel weird.
5) i have told her.

ok i'll try to comment on every answer i get.

the next answar.

6) i keep asking because the more i ask the more advise i get. i also realsise that she might never change her mind but i want a chance. is it to much to want to have the chance for it to work? i am carefull how i talk to her and try not get to clingy. she told me many times that she wont ever leave me and we'll be friends for ever. if i don't try she'll find someone else and our friendship will change. if i get to be with her one of two things will happen. we will live a happy life, or we will break up but neather of us would cheat or intentually hurt eachother so we wouldn't have sour feelings for eachother. granted our friendship could change but it wouldn't end. i wouldn't stalk her. i try my hardest NOT to make her feel weird and i know i'll never do something like that to her. thank you so much for the complement at the end.

Answer 1

It is hard to get out of the friend zone but it can be done. I have seen it done and it can work out. On the other hand it can end the friendship. You pretty much need to do something with her that is friendly, but a little on the romantic side. When you catch one of those moments when you are looking into each others eyes you might want to try talking about it. I would not advise you to just drop the ILY line on her just like that, it would shock her.

Answer 2

OK. Let's be straight here. You've asked this question four times before, and have got some real good advice from people. Why in blue blazes are you asking this again?

I hope it all works out for you, but, she is the one that holds all the cards. She gets to decide whether the both of you goes to the next level of you're relationship, not you. At some time, after all that time has passed you've got to consider the possibility that she isn't going to change her mind, and that it might be time to move on.

I hope for your sake I'm wrong on this. But you're going to have to keep that possibility in mind.

If you keep pressing her in a full court press, you might just end up losing her as a friend as well. I agree with what one other person said in one of your previous questions. You're skating on thin ice. So watch it.

One other word. If it doesn't end up going your way, don't turn in to one of these stalker dudes, that we hear about on the 6 o'clock news. Just move on gracefully. There are plenty of other fish in the sea out there that are waiting to be loved by a kind hearted man. Right ladies?

Answer 3

Sounds like you'renot hearing what your "friend" has to say. being in the friend zone is not the worst thing.. losing her friendship and all contact with her might be much worse, no?
Obviously, she has her reasons for not wanting you as a bf or lover. Please try and respect that! And, hey, there REALLY ARE plenty of fish in the sea so get out there and see others! You may find somone else who can feel for you as you do for her... Do yourself a BIG favor and do NOT play games with this!

Answer 4

two things. you can't make someone love you. it's just not humanly possible. you have to respect her if you truly love her. secondly, i've been in this situation so i'm not just talking out my butt here okay? you deserve someone to love you back. you need to give this one up. i'm guessing by the 666 in your sn that you're not into God? i was going to suggest you pray about it. it helps. write out your feelings in poetry. that's what i do. ask her "do you think this could ever be anything or should i give up?" you need to show her you love her and give up if needed.

Answer 5

well, the straight forward solution is go and tell her, u cant really do nething else....ok she may reject u, but that may help u to move on.......dont wait, u may b lucky go and tell her...

Answer 6

tell her you love her.if you do you risk nothing if you dont you risk everything.dont let true love slip through your fingers. trust me.

Answer 7

what makes you think that she dont have those same feelings for you?????