i'm been dating a girl 2 years alredy!! 02/06/2003-02/06/2006...
i love this girl and still have my suspicion over her!!
she have been calling/texting with a guy she call "friend".......(FIR)
i dont really know what to expect .......
each day past i felt like the "love" is dying....
when ever i ask for intimate relationship...she decline........
a few days ago we have a big fight........she reveal to me that
someone as alredy propose to marry her ..and her parents agree!!
her dad..really really dont like me!!
well i'm kinda shy around the elders/parents so i dont really show my personality!!
i ask her what to do..........
she said she dont really know........
it is seems to me like she agreeing to marry that guy..that guys is a childhood friend of her..........(Dano)
she cried when telling me this...saying that i dont understand the situation
if you are in my shoes...what should you do??
pls gives your opinion!!
2006-06-05 18:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
02/06/2004-02/06/2006 thats the actual year and date!! so thats make 2 years!
2006-06-05 18:48:01 · update #1
erk.......... i'm just to clumsy!! actaully 3 years!!!
2006-06-05 20:31:25 · update #2
you can't make someone love you, you can't make someone marry you, all you can do is to give and show love, love the right person that is, if its not her, then it will be someone that is more worthy of your time and affections,
life throws you curveballs, its how you play them that count
2006-06-05 18:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by getafix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i belive that all guys get a little susptious when their gf start to flirt with other guys so thats a natrual. But the whole marriage to a long time childhood friend thing is an aqward situation i honestly dont have any advice except tell her that you really cant understand the situation unless she tells you about it talk to her
2006-06-05 18:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a pretty long time to be with someone & then be shot down that fast. I'm sorry that happened to you but it sounds like she is going to end up marrying him no matter what you do anyway, so as hard as it might be- I think the only option is for you to move on.
2006-06-05 18:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes trying to tell you something. she wants you to break it off so she dont have to. i know 2 years seems like a long time, but at least you can move on to spend the better of your years with someone thats not going to marry someone else while shes with you. it would be better for you emotionally, to just break it off. its not worth it. if your the one she wants to be with, she will come back to you.
2006-06-05 18:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound good. if she is willing to marry a guy because her parents want her to, then what else is she going to do. would she wait till her parents told her it was time to have kids, are they going to tell her how many to have, what to name them, and how to raise them. what if they decide later that they don't like this guy, are they going to tell her to divorce him? i know this might be extreme, but maybe you might be better off finding someone that has a mind of her own. i know this isn't what you wanted to hear and it is just my opinion. i really do wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-05 18:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two years a bit long..but move on...its the best thing to do...forget about her...shes so insecure...find somebody that her parents wont run her life.....or decide for her..
2006-06-05 18:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by jsdgam3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will move on and respect her decision..It's two years...No big deal...
2006-06-05 18:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by MissIndependanceday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋