2006-06-05 18:11:15 · 80 answers · asked by smclms 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and my girlfriend have been fighting and i called her some bad names and now she wolnt even talk to me and when i call she dont answer and i dont kno how to say sorry
2006-06-05 18:13:44 · update #1
to late man, you ****** up
2006-06-05 18:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, DON'T show up at her home to apologize. Do send her a letter apologizing for what you said along with some flowers. Don't expect anything in return, as she owes you nothing. If she chooses to speak to you again, you'll be the lucky one. If she closes the door completely, then leave her alone, otherwise you could be hit with harassment papers.
Swearing and saying hurtful things when you are angry is a terrible thing to do, and you need some help with anger management. Realize it now, and do something about it before it gets you in trouble down the road.
2006-06-19 18:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send flowers with a note, pour your apologies out. If she is definitely not acknowledging you, Then have followers delivered to an environment where friends will insist that she read the note. From now on...Be Nice..What if she had said the same things to you? Now , she just might need some time away to heal. So make your apology known, then leave alone for a few days, K
2006-06-18 08:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her place and even though she will be pissed off. Tell her to stop and listen to you for once. Then tell her exectly what and why you are sorry, applozise. You should at no time bring up anyone else in your conversation or blame anyone else or say why it happened or how it happened. Just tell her that you are sorry for what happened, ask her forgiveness and promise not to ever let it happen again and make sure no matter if she forgives you or not, dont let it ever happen again. Tell her how you feel , how much you miss her and how much she or he means to you and be sincear. Say it from your heart and mean every word of it. If she forgives you then fine. If she / he doesnt then at least you will be able to put closer to it all and move on with the true filling that at least you tries and tries truely and sincearly. Good luck...........
2006-06-05 18:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A letter.
Mail a letter to her with your feelilngs and your apology. Don't bribe her with flowers and candy. Make it from your heart and give her time. Let her know in your letting that you're sorry and that you were wrong.
Then give her time. If she doesn't come around, accept the fact the relationship might be over. Doesn't mean that after a couple of weeks or even years it might not go back to what it was...
And in the future, don't attack her with bad names. Don't ever attack the character of someone you care about. Words hurt and you can never take them back.
Good luck.
2006-06-19 14:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by goddess_veronica54 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Saying SORRY seems to be the hardest thing in life these day's! If I was you, I would do something special for her. Something to make her see that you are truly sorry for calling her bad names and that you are being sincere about it. The easiest way to the Radio Station. You could always get a friend of hers to get with your girlfriend to make sure she hears it on the radio. Most importantly, make her see how much she is cared about, loved, and show her just how special she is to you. That should do the trick. I hope this helps. Good Luck.
2006-06-18 15:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by town_hall_office_clerk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels really disrespected by someone that was supposed to love her. There is a possibility that you have lost her. I would give her a little while to deal with the hurt that you have done to her. Leave her alone for a couple of weeks and then contact her. If she still doesn't talk to you then you need to let her come to you. If you keep bothering her, this might make her even more angry.
2006-06-19 11:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to try hard...it's really serious since you've called I dont know what...
You can though send her a sweet sweet sweet email card saying youre sorry or some nice flowers with nice a card and a nice chocolate AND a nice song-you can either right her one kind of foolish and you know... or a song of her favorites as long as the lyrics are suitable...
2006-06-18 12:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by hahanos! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling... you are just annoying her. How would you feel if she called you those names. Girls get their feelings hurt easy. Send he some flowers with a letter and apologize profusely! Then tell her you will not keep hounding her but that you really hope she will forgive you. Then back off for a bit then try to reconnect.
2006-06-19 14:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by cruzin_destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to listen to u and if she doesn't want to see u after that it's ok. If she says ok, then tell her that u didn't realy meant to tell her all that bad stuff. Tell her that ur sorry if by anyway u hurt her feelings. Then tell her that u were in bad mood and that wasn't an excuse to tell her all that bad names, but u couldn't control urself. Tell her ur really sorry, and that if she could ever forgive u. If she does, then ur lucky. Also, tell her that u feel so bad and that u don't want her mad at u. If she doesn't fall 4 it, send her flowers, card, ect. Good luck anyways!!! :-)
2006-06-19 17:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband and I were just starting to see one another he would take a spell where he would just want to run, so he would ignore me. Well that made me love him even more, I don't know why but it did. But eventually I got sick of it and started ignoring him. Well honey it worked. I only had to do it once, now were married. So maybe thats what you'll need to do. Ignore her and maybe even pretend to be talking to another girl. She'll probably come running.
Best Wishes
2006-06-19 11:14:41 · answer #11 · answered by Ashlynn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋