How can i stop my teenage daughter from going boy crazy?

Answer 1

Wellllllllll first off, just know that it is very normal, and you are far from alone there!!! I think the best advice I have is to listen to her and keep open communication about it all. We also keep all 3 of our kids busy, getting all of that energy and hormones out in some way! It's hard to tell you exactly what to have her do as you know your daughter best! I would say, any guys that she likes or has a crush on, just help her to keep it in perspective ya know? I mean, she can think somebody is cute but set the rules down, no dating until you are ?old, etc. Around here, we have kept the lines of communication open and yes, they get frustrated and upset by the rules but they respect them and know, no matter what, we are here and always love them! I think that consistency, that stability is so important during a very turbulent, troublesome time for some teens!!! Just remember, this too shall pass...........hang in, hang on, buckle up for a wild ride of teen years!!! You all will be fine, patience,love and persevere........you are not alone!!!:)

Answer 2

well thats something that u can't stop... all teenage girls go through it....i'm a teenage girl and i know all about going boy crazy....just be careful and watch her around boys so she doesn't become sexually active, where std's or pregnancy may become a big loss in trust in ur daughter...but its not ur fault that she's boy crazy...every girl goes through it...some get it young like 10 and some get it later like 17...but no matter what happens with ur daughter let herknow that you will always be there for her . Be the father that ur daughter can talk about anything with...make sure u keep a close relationship with ur daughter no matter what happens!

Answer 3

You cant stop her from being boy crazy, thats just what teenagers do, dont you remember being a teen yourself? Put yourself in her shoes, and look at things from her perspective, the only way she is likely to begin to calm down is with time , she needs time to experience good and bad situations for herself to make her own decisions and mistakes, so that she is able to mould herself into a proper citizen, that wil become valuable to society, teach her what she needs to know, be there when she makes mistakes, listen when she has ideas, hold her when she cries, and most of all love her for being her, as you will never know anyone quite the same, and you never know she may teach you a thing or two.....

Answer 4

U should know by now that that may not happen. U were a young boy. Even if u sent her to a school with nuns around her 24/7 it ain't gonna help if she's as boy crazy as u say.

What u could do is teach her to be very responsible & respectful to herself and to her parents. Since u were a boy teach her how boys think maybe that will do some good

Answer 5

With all due respect, there is no way to keep any teenager from going crazy over the opposite gender. But one thing you could do that will help is to keep the lines of communication open between the two of you and keep her involved in things that interest her. So for example if she enjoys sports or swimming or anything like that, by all means find ways to keep her involved in that.

Answer 6

This is what my sister-in-law did to 2 of her 3 kids.
She let them know that once she thought or found out they were having sex that she was going to take them to her gyno and have them checked.
Sure enough she did just that last month she took her 15 year old in and had her checked and put on birth control just to be sure that there were no other mouths to feed in a few months.
I wish that my mother had done that for me because I was definately boy crazy from 15 on and sure enough ended up pregnant and on welfare by the time I was 17. Not a great start to a teenagers life!!!!

REALITY WORKS WONDERS!!!!

Answer 7

Let her have her freedom, but instill morals and values in her. If you try to control her every move, that will increase her desire to go against your will. Make sure you keep tabs on her, but don't overpower her. Being boy crazy is a phase teenage girls go through, just make sure you don't push her in the wrong direction where she never gets out of that phase. Love her, appreciate her, but most importantly teach her what being a lady "Really" is.

Answer 8

in a way, you really can't. kids enter that stage you call puberty and you can't really stop teenagers from doing what they want to do, especially when it's concerned with infatuation and the opposite sex, or same sex. this is the time they're trying to find their identity and everyone experiences this particular time in their lives.

i guess, it's best if you tell her that she needs to be careful, that she should know the consequences of making wrong decisions. the best thing that you can do is guide her, talk to her. make her feel comfortable talking to you about boys. when she's comfy, that's the time she'll open up to you and i think that's a good thing. good luck!

Answer 9

u know a good answer to that tell me.. i my self am a teenager but i can understand exactly how u r feeling.. the only one who can do something about that problem is electronic media.. but would never do that as they want ppl to go sex crazy.. here in muslim countries media is pretty much under control.. they can whatever they want but have some limits (good limits) thats the reason y teenagers like me here understand y should we respect our elders dicisions.. good luck... my best wishes r with u..

Answer 10

If any parent could do that they'd be working miracles! Having said which, I found that if I said I liked the boy my daughter was currently dating she went off him like a cat on a hot tin roof, lol